I did tell her it's not safe. It's not safe, it's not smart and it NEVER leads anywhere positive. If there's a repair person here to fix something, I know about it. If I don't know about it and you don't know about it, don't let them in the house. I make arrangements for those situations.
My family and friends were over for Christmas and of course no one was the wiser, nobody knows about my shit.
When I was new to growing I told a few of my friends and they all either became leeches or just ran their mouths off everywhere so I sold all my 400w lights and told them I quit that shit. I really just upgraded to 600w lights, bought a tent, rented a place with an extra room and no one knows what's up. No more leeching, no more storytelling, no more drama. I think I'm doing my friends a favor by not giving them some juicy shit to talk about.
We often joke about "growing again" so we don't have to pay for our expensive smoke.