Special pleading ftl!
A xtian cannot understand the bible without a working knowledge of Hebrew, Aramaic and Greek.
You guys should really figure out your message and stick with it instead of changing it based on the circumstance. On one hand we keep being told the bible simple, it should be self-evident to anyone, is made by god to be accessible to everyone, which undoubtedly should include those that haven't been imbued with the holy spirit. Now you tell us that former xtians or non-xtians cannot possibly understand. Well Jews don't think you xtians understand their bible, which your bible relies heavily upon. Jesus certainly had just cause to accuse the pharisees of being way to strict with the law to the point making the intent lost in the minutiae. However, claiming that Jesus, still an observant Jew, meant to do away with the law altogether is misunderstanding his message and going to the opposite extreme. You're worse than the pharisees, cherry picking what you want and discarding everything else. The same code that xtians use to denounce gays is the same one prohibiting the eating of shellfish or wearing clothing of mixed fabrics.
This si where you have assumed wrongly though, you assumed that Christ came to destroy the law. Rather He came to fulfill it. We do not abolish the law, rather we uphold the law.
“Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. For truly I tell you, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished. Therefore anyone who sets aside one of the least of these commands and teaches others accordingly will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever practices and teaches these commands will be called great in the kingdom of heaven. For I tell you that unless your righteousness surpasses that of the Pharisees and the teachers of the law, you will certainly not enter the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 5
In other words, in Christ we are above the law and keep the law because we keep love. Love does not go against the law. And the shellfish etc argument is null and void because that is apart of the law that Christ has fulfilled, it was not about what went into the mouth, but what came out of the heart. You do not understand what Jesus was meaning in the Old Testament regarding the eating of certain fish and the discarding of others so please read up before you make accusations of the sort. It is not what goes into a man that makes him unclean, but rather what comes out of his mouth. That comes out of the heart. When we were bound to the old testament and its rules and regulations, which we are not any longer because they have been fulfilled in Christ, the shellfish rule was there to show it was unclean for a man to eat because the Lord established it as unclean, just as today, it is unclean for a man to lust after a woman, or for a man to eat a food he believes to be unclean. The rule for sexual immorality is not and has never been under the same "code" as shellfish. Homosexuality is part of something that has not changed, and this is from the bible, whereas the rules and regulations concerning food has been taken away for something greater. The law has been magnified, not minimized. So whereas before it was food going into a mouth, now it is words coming out. Before it was sexual immorality, now it is thought of that girl or guy. Before it was a man and a man having sex, now it is a man even thinking about a man lustfully.
Do we, then, nullify the law by this faith? Not at all! Rather, we uphold the law. Romans 3:31
Do not get me wrong either, I am not contradicting myself when i say we uphold the law, and we have fulfilled the law. What I mean is that in Christ, when we remain in Him, we do not go against the law but keep what matters, such as the above mentioned parts, etc I do not lust after a woman when I remain in Christ compared to having sex with one, I do not lust after a man compared to having sex with one, I do not eat a food I would believe to be unclean compared to eating shellfish, I do not speak evil words compared to putting something into my body that is bad.