Spit or Swallow

Spit, Swallow, Neither

  • Spit

    Votes: 1 4.0%

  • Swallow

    Votes: 14 56.0%

  • Neither

    Votes: 10 40.0%
  • Total voters
    25
pen47Tex

pen47Tex

Active Member
Carne, your story breaks my heart. I am very sorry you had to go through that. Are you a stronger, better person, because of that experience?
 
pen47Tex

pen47Tex

Active Member
Carne Seca said:
Shit happens. That's my attitude. LOL
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My nephew is going through a similar situation now with my brother. He calls me, because he knows I love him regardless. I'm afraid words fail me. I do not know how to help him other than to tell him how sorry I am, and I love him.
 
Carne Seca

Carne Seca

Well-Known Member
pen47Tex said:
My nephew is going through a similar situation now with my brother. He calls me, because he knows I love him regardless. I'm afraid words fail me. I do not know how to help him other than to tell him how sorry I am, and I love him.
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That's more help than you think. He has an outlet. Your brother needs to realize that his son has no choice in the matter. He is what he is. If he raised his son to be a moral and ethical person then he has nothing to worry about. Rejection is the worst case scenario. It rips your heart to shreds. Keep telling him you love him and listen with a sympathetic ear. Sometimes just having an ear to bend is more comforting than listening to well meaning platitudes. Direct him to the It Gets Better Project. It's a great program that supports LGBT youth.
 
pen47Tex

pen47Tex

Active Member
Carne Seca said:
That's more help than you think. He has an outlet. Your brother needs to realize that his son has no choice in the matter. He is what he is. If he raised his son to be a moral and ethical person then he has nothing to worry about. Rejection is the worst case scenario. It rips your heart to shreds. Keep telling him you love him and listen with a sympathetic ear. Sometimes just having an ear to bend is more comforting than listening to well meaning platitudes. Direct him to the It Gets Better Project. It's a great program that supports LGBT youth.
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Thank you. I will do just that. I am flying him home for Thanksgiving because he isn't welcome at my brothers. I pray I handle it right. He is a good, kind, and gentle young man that deserves better than what he is getting right now.
Peace
 
Carne Seca

Carne Seca

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pen47Tex said:
Thank you. I will do just that. I am flying him home for Thanksgiving because he isn't welcome at my brothers. I pray I handle it right. He is a good, kind, and gentle young man that deserves better than what he is getting right now.
Peace
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Welcome to my daily life and his too.
 
Carne Seca

Carne Seca

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nonuggets said:
that the experience can be just as gratifying without anal sex. i don't have butt sex myself, but i've got vagina. if you say its rare to not have anal sex in the gay community then i dunno if you can say satisfaction guaranteed, especially if you have doods straight up walk away when you tell them.
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The critiques come from my former partners not myself. There are a lot of guys that don't find anal sex satisfying. In fact they find it quite painful. Everyone has their own thing. Anal sex isn't one of mine.
 
VILEPLUME

VILEPLUME

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Carne Seca said:
The critiques come from my former partners not myself. There are a lot of guys that don't find anal sex satisfying. In fact they find it quite painful. Everyone has their own thing. Anal sex isn't one of mine.
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I found the same thing with my wife. She actually really enjoyed it, but my manhood was so sore for a couple of days.
 
KenTheMan

KenTheMan

Member
nonuggets said:
yes i have come across it....THEY ARE CALLED PRUDES. difference between what i said and what these women said is simple, i don't accuse girls of degrading me by not giving me head.
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So if a chick doesn't give head no matter the reason she's a prude? If a chick didn't want to give me head for whatever reason but was just as happy to jump on it or do other things she's not a prude.
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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I thought a girl who doesn't want to have sex at all is a prude. What's with expectations these days 0_o next minute you'll say a girl who isn't into PVC, anal, golden showers, scat porn and ballgags is a prude.
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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No I am not comparing them directly.

Listen, I don't want to sound like a ho but actually I'M the one tryin to get the kinky stuff in the bedroom. It's just your air of expectation and pressurizing or implying a girl is 'wrong' because she doesn't want to do what was and is still considered by some to be a 'deviant' sexual activity.

I'm not a prude... Far from it, I just have morals.
 
Metasynth

Metasynth

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My vagina itches...I shared a tampon with Uncle Buck and now I think I have a yeast infection.

This thread is legit, for sure!
 
Urca

Urca

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dude no one ever said giving head was sexually deviant. you are reading way too much into this. she is saying that you have no right to call a woman a prude if she doesnt let you cum in her mouth.
 
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