Spit or Swallow

Spit, Swallow, Neither

  • Spit

    Votes: 1 4.0%
  • Swallow

    Votes: 14 56.0%
  • Neither

    Votes: 10 40.0%

  • Total voters
    25

Hepheastus420

Well-Known Member
You can be a hard man to please. :joint::bigjoint: cn
Shit I'd be pleased if she just gave me a hand job.. Well kind of..

Swallowing is a nice gesture. Guys do alot of different things to please their girls, so for kuroi to say we're treating girls just as a place to put our dicks in, she's talking nonsense. That would mean we're just a toy for them since we enjoy pleasing women. It just doesn't make sense to me.
 

greenghost420

Well-Known Member
bottom line, if a woman doesnt want to...she shouldnt have to! and dont buy that line " if you love me youll do it" ...lol
 

xKuroiTaimax

Well-Known Member
Shit I'd be pleased if she just gave me a hand job.. Well kind of..

Swallowing is a nice gesture. Guys do alot of different things to please their girls, so for kuroi to say we're treating girls just as a place to put our dicks in, she's talking nonsense. That would mean we're just a toy for them since we enjoy pleasing women. It just doesn't make sense to me.
Ok, SOME guys treat women as a place to put their dicks in. It seems to be one extreme or the other with you. You, Hep, are one or the nice ones, but the other end of the spectrum is so disgusting and degrading it warrants the blanket statement. Some of you his are sweet but some of the the outrageous shit I cannot believevI'vevread on this forum and heard coming out of a guy's mouth, stuff that isn't even just about sexual equality but you should not speak about another human being like that, period. Just complete disregard.. And it frightens me how much sex can make people dehumanise eachother.

Making myself a safe place to put a dick in has just landed me in hospital. In the lobby of the ER right now so in a bad mood.
 

xKuroiTaimax

Well-Known Member
I think most women probably do feel like that, as it's much easier for a woman to find someone to hook up with than it is for a man. I'd think the feeling would be 'well if he can't do it, I'll find someone who can', which, imo, isn't slutty, just realistic. That's just another aspect of dating, you don't think dating people is slutty, do you? Going on a few dates with a guy then testing the waters, 3rd base, maybe knock it out of the park a few times before you make your decision, that type of thing..

Not to mention the constant judgment on size men deal with throughout society.
Actually, I've never done that, because zi think it would be regarded as slutty. I might talk kinky and send kinky pictures but I can't do that. I did give myself up the first time TT and I 'hooked up', was scared to act clingy and come back but didn't like the idea of sleeping with someone and just waltzing off either. Thankfully. My instincts were right and he is the right one, so I have been coming back to him ever since. Sometimes a guy gets tired, he needs to sleep after even if you're not done and you swallowed. But that man might be working hard to make a life for you and I guess he could make up for it another time.

Pad I'm sorry for the anti-man statements again. Bit as a woman god knows how much we suffer for men. I'm lucky mine is worth jumping off a bridge for.

Neer Neer, sorry but she was a bitch. You are a shining example of a man and I know what that jaw/face pain is like..
 

xKuroiTaimax

Well-Known Member
I'm not going to lie, he could be a pornstar if he was so inclined.

Im pretty small too..

But the problem is I was dancing vigorously for a music video last night, my IUd string broke and now I am bleeding like crazy with a perforated uterus. I might need a hysterectomy.

Will show you guys some of the footage some other time. Need to call Tip Top. I know he's not keen on kids right now but who knows about the future. Damn if you hugs knew how delicate and complex a woman's sexual organs are. A myriad if shit to go wrong...
 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
I'm not going to lie, he could be a pornstar if he was so inclined. Im pretty small too.. But the problem is I was dancing vigorously for a music video last night, my IUd string broke and now I am bleeding like crazy with a perforated uterus. I might need a hysterectomy. Will show you guys some of the footage some other time. Need to call Tip Top. I know he's not keen on kids right now but who knows about the future. Damn if you hugs knew how delicate and complex a woman's sexual organs are. A myriad if shit to go wrong...
Sending good thoughts your way. cn
 

xKuroiTaimax

Well-Known Member
Yep. Yu guys are keepin me sane while I wait for a nurse. I'm fucking pissed about bleeding through my pretty pink things aswell. My priorities are fucked I know, but humor gets you throug tough times.

Hehe I broke myself doing this, with a poky bit of wire inside basically

[video=youtube;oHivyA_fwpA]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHivyA_fwpA&feature=youtube_gdata_player[/video]

On the topic though, if she loves you, she'll learn what you like and try to just surprise you with it. Like hey, it's not your birthday, but happy birthday.. *pulls your pants down* lol No need to ask, dear.

Damn, when I'm upset/nervous/stressed I either yell at people or sound like a total slut.
 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
Yep. Yu guys are keepin me sane while I wait for a nurse. I'm fucking pissed about bleeding through my pretty pink things aswell. My priorities are fucked I know, but humor gets you throug tough times. Hehe I broke myself doing this, with a poky bit of wire inside basically [video=youtube;oHivyA_fwpA]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHivyA_fwpA&feature=youtube_gdata_player[/video] On the topic though, if she loves you, she'll learn what you like and try to just surprise you with it. Like hey, it's not your birthday, but happy birthday.. *pulls your pants down* lol No need to ask, dear. Damn, when I'm upset/nervous/stressed I either yell at people or sound like a total slut.
But but but didn't you feel it happening?? cn
 

xKuroiTaimax

Well-Known Member
I felt a little twinge in the days leading up to it and was sporting, but that happens sometimes so I ignored It. I am usually in pain at the strt of and after sex too, so I got used to brushing the pain off. About 10 minutes into my first break I felt a few sharper pains than usual, probably the string twisting and poking me, but it was the last leap that did it. Suddenly felt wet and the pain just got worse. Checked the string in the toilet and it was bent totally tw wrong way, I double over in pain walking back. This morning it got worse, got to the hospital tonight, had another stabbing pain fit, checked and the string was gone, part of the flesh came away on my hand and I just started bleeding like crazy (sorry of too much information) so now I am sat here with ruined frilly things, in pain and wondering how the fick they are going to get this thing out of me. I do not like the idea of laparoscopy.
 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
I felt a little twinge in the days leading up to it and was sporting, but that happens sometimes so I ignored It. I am usually in pain at the strt of and after sex too, so I got used to brushing the pain off. About 10 minutes into my first break I felt a few sharper pains than usual, probably the string twisting and poking me, but it was the last leap that did it. Suddenly felt wet and the pain just got worse. Checked the string in the toilet and it was bent totally tw wrong way, I double over in pain walking back. This morning it got worse, got to the hospital tonight, had another stabbing pain fit, checked and the string was gone, part of the flesh came away on my hand and I just started bleeding like crazy (sorry of too much information) so now I am sat here with ruined frilly things, in pain and wondering how the fick they are going to get this thing out of me. I do not like the idea of laparoscopy.
A laparoscopy is so much better than the alternative. Mind you; I'm no doctor, but the capacity of the nether bits to heal themselves is awesome. Try to think positive unless the option is removed. Fwiw. cn

 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
anyone who gave this a thumbs up is a fucking idiot. not that it's factually wrong, but its an absurd response to my statement. sorry, i prefer girls who aren't grossed out by sex and aren't crazy...that disqualifies you.
Note that everyone who Liked it was a woman.
To me, that suggests that many many men could stand to learn a thing or two about consideration. Jmo. cn
 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
i could like it too if the context was right...all the statement really said was "cum grosses me out. you should be happy that i will even sleep with you. i am defensive because i equate pleasing a man in bed as being his slave. i get angry when a guy says he likes girls who like cum, because i don't."
Imo that is your interpretation. I got something quite different.

Maybe I'm simply not your average guy. My ex would not consider swallowing. No big to me; I counted it as pure bonus that she seemed to like giving head in the first place. My xgf finished me and swallowed (this one time at band camp), and I have to tell you ... I warned her I was about to come. She made an affirmative noise, and I rode the wave to shore. I was amazed. I also kissed her right after and got a hint of various flavors.

But my core attitude is "lady's choice". Not wanting to swallow .. I cannot imagine how that would cheapen the act. cn
 
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