Did I do the wrong thing? Worried sick

ca$hcropper

Active Member
i cant help but have hope though.
That's not hope girl that's no self esteem. Hope would be that you hope that one different cute guy thinks your cute so take the chance don't keep letting this dude beat you down to feeling worthless, there's lots of fish in the sea go ahead and throw out your bait just not the chum or you will be eaten alive by the sharks(dudes just looking to get off and move on)
 

Finshaggy

Well-Known Member
And especially if you don't love him what's the deal here???

You JUST admitted to that much...
Deleted him from everywhere...
DROP HIS ASS.
 

ca$hcropper

Active Member
you cant tell me you dont know why.
I get what your saying man I do but its really not necessary is it? Her threads always blow up and the sad part is probably half the post are just dudes talking shit and trying to beat her the rest of the way down. I just don't get it if its that bad and you know it will be then why you hear reading her posts?
 

lime73

Weed Modifier
I get what your saying man I do but its really not necessary is it? Her threads always blow up and the sad part is probably half the post are just dudes talking shit and trying to beat her the rest of the way down. I just don't get it if its that bad and you know it will be then why you hear reading her posts?
Haha...exactly! +rep
 

Finshaggy

Well-Known Member
you cant tell me you dont know why.
I mean I SEE the problem here, but pick and choose when to bash her...

She says something stupid about...A show, or a bud fact...Go for it...

But when she's trying to decide what to do in a relationship situation, and trying to do some REAL talk about something. Don't talk a bunch of shit, just tell her what's up.

I get what your saying man I do but its really not necessary is it? Her threads always blow up and the sad part is probably half the post are just dudes talking shit and trying to beat her the rest of the way down. I just don't get it if its that bad and you know it will be then why you hear reading her posts?
Exactly...

Like, if you want to read her stuff read it.

If you want to talk shit, talk shit.

But don't attack her on a topic like this :(
 

ca$hcropper

Active Member
I mean I SEE the problem here, but pick and choose when to bash her...

She says something stupid about...A show, or a bud fact...Go for it...

But when she's trying to decide what to do in a relationship situation, and trying to do some REAL talk about something. Don't talk a bunch of shit, just tell her what's up.



Exactly...

Like, if you want to read her stuff read it.

If you want to talk shit, talk shit.

But don't attack her on a topic like this :(

The girl is just attempting to reach out to her peers (RIU) she is young and new to this don't put her down either hit the back button or throw out honest advice as you would if this was someones grow, hell its someones life why not try and help them out. Shit I wish I had gotten more advice when I was younger and unsure about shit
 

blazinkill504

Well-Known Member
its just so hard because I do care alot and there's times he shows me that he cares, but being blown off and ignored for 4-5 days at a time then getting a single text then blown off again really hurts. I mean, i try so hard to be the right kind of girl, I want to have some effort on his part too
that right there is why your fwb isnt contactin you anymore.
 

Carne Seca

Well-Known Member
I have one word for you Miss Urca. Impermanence. Someday this will be a small anecdote in the story of your life. You'll either look back on it with a little smile or a small ache in your heart. Pick yourself up, brush yourself off and move on. You have the rest of your life to live. ;)
 

lime73

Weed Modifier
i never said i loved this guy
Then why are you letting him make you feel this way???
you are Young and should not have to deal, with someone ....who doesn't want all of you ...100%. Not just physically either.
I'm sure there are people in your life who build you up, not Tear you down, those are the ones to be around and care about! Everyone else :finger:. Peace :mrgreen:
 
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