Did I do the wrong thing? Worried sick

ganjames

ganjames

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april said:
Urca u clearly don't get what a FWB truly is ;) Ur going all girlfriend on him by texting daily, he is suppose to be able 2 text u at 2 am for a random booty call, ur not suppose to be crying over him, damn girl im sorry if ur sad but what has he done wrong if he is only a FWB ;)
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Word to big bird.
 
Hepheastus420

Hepheastus420

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Urca said:
he says im the only chick he's been with sexually since we started up back on may first... idk i trust him, i just hate feeling like im not important to him until Im actually spending time with him.
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He says you're the only chick so that he can sneak his STD's into you. And he only cares for your body. Again, fuck him and don't give him anymore head.
 
ganjames

ganjames

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Urca said:
he says im the only chick he's been with sexually since we started up back on may first... idk i trust him,i just hate feeling like im not important to him until Im actually spending time with him.
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Probably because you're not lmfao, you're just letting him shoot his load down your throat.
 
Finshaggy

Finshaggy

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What's done has been done...

It is what it is.

You were right in the first place, if he doesn't hit you back up...Fuck him.
 
ca$hcropper

ca$hcropper

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Urca april kinda nailed this one you were fwb so when he needs or you do you help each other out, you give him a hand. Sorry couldn't help it. If a boyfriend is what you expect out of him you may want to let him know otherwise of course he blows you off. If my fwb blows me one night and then blows up my phone for a week I'm thinking to myself this just isn't working out here lol and I'm off like a prom dress, you know out like a fat kid in dodgeball
 
medicalmaryjane

medicalmaryjane

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Urca said:
its just so hard because I do care alot and there's times he shows me that he cares, but being blown off and ignored for 4-5 days at a time then getting a single text then blown off again really hurts. I mean, i try so hard to be the right kind of girl, I want to have some effort on his part too
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i know you're a sweetheart and you don't deserve that type of treatment but it's typical male bs. it sounds like he's lost respect for you or doesn't desire to see you anymore. it hurts but it happens. not every pair are compatible for a long-term relationship or friendship even. you learned & you've grown and it's time to move on. you will meet many other men and have all kinds of experiences, just be safe and learn from them.

the word a lot is 2 words btw. xoxo
 
justcallmenasty

justcallmenasty

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ive noticed you bitch an awful lot. how bout you not be so easy and dont blow every guy that comes near you or talk to you and clinging to them like you have been dating for 3 years. i hate clingy girls and i figure most other guys do that shit is mad annoying. quit bitching about stuff and get off your ass and do something about it damn. you act like your life is horrible or something damn people go through 10 times more shit then you will ever go through and dont bitch about it.
 
Urca

Urca

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idk, i mean he does genuinely show care and concern for me, but thats rare to happen unless we're hanging out, then he's all cuddles and kisses and yeah... its confusing. or out of the blue he'll just call me to talk, but then i wont hear from him for forever.
 
medicalmaryjane

medicalmaryjane

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Urca said:
idk, i mean he does genuinely show care and concern for me, but thats rare to happen unless we're hanging out, then he's all cuddles and kisses and yeah... its confusing. or out of the blue he'll just call me to talk, but then i wont hear from him for forever.
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it'ss not confusing. that's how you get play, act like you care. it's not you, it's him. he got what he wanted & now he's gone.
 
Urca

Urca

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justcallmenasty said:
ive noticed you bitch an awful lot. how bout you not be so easy and dont blow every guy that comes near you or talk to you and clinging to them like you have been dating for 3 years. i hate clingy girls and i figure most other guys do that shit is mad annoying. quit bitching about stuff and get off your ass and do something about it damn. you act like your life is horrible or something damn people go through 10 times more shit then you will ever go through and dont bitch about it.
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ive only been with one guy, kissed one guy, etc. no one else except for this dude. please dont insinuate that im some kind of whore
 
Finshaggy

Finshaggy

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Urca said:
idk, i mean he does genuinely show care and concern for me, but thats rare to happen unless we're hanging out, then he's all cuddles and kisses and yeah... its confusing. or out of the blue he'll just call me to talk, but then i wont hear from him for forever.
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Sounds like you're a
Booty call :)

Don't think the cuddles and kisses are "Care and concern". He's tryin a get his dick WET.
 
Soupy<3Smoke

Soupy<3Smoke

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You just have to always believe you are worth fighting for. And asking for attention is ridiculous. He should want to give it to you. If not, let it go. Make way for another person to give you want you want. Good luck :D

Urca said:
Ive mentioned the fwb dude on here several times. well over the last few months he blows me off ALOT. and im sick of it, have talked to him about it several times, nothing worked. Anywho I also realized I was being kind of needy, and I only send him one text a day, if he doesnt reply I dont try again until the next day. But Ive gotten sick of waiting.

so... I deleted his email, his picture, his phone number, etc... In the hopes that if he really wanted to talk to me he'd make an effort, then i'd have his number back.

but im super nervous and second guessing myself, except for now I cant go back and undo what I did.

gah am I stupid for doing this? All this shit is so confusing, and I am just tired of being ignored.
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Finshaggy

Finshaggy

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Urca said:
ive only been with one guy, kissed one guy, etc. no one else except for this dude. please dont insinuate that im some kind of whore
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Find someone else. That dude isn't even tryina chill. And you dropped him. Go with your original gut feeling that you had when you deleted him from your LIFE.
 
beardo

beardo

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Theirs a bunch of dudes at the bus stops, go grayhound if you have to, you can find guys
 
ca$hcropper

ca$hcropper

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Urca said:
ive only been with one guy, kissed one guy, etc. no one else except for this dude. please dont insinuate that im some kind of whore
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And this right here could be part your problem, forget him move on to the next dude and try a relationship cause hearing you talk I think that's honestly what you want, they call it a dating game cause it is just stay honest with yourself and how you feel and don't except anything less or this is exactly what you will get
 
justcallmenasty

justcallmenasty

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Urca said:
ive only been with one guy, kissed one guy, etc. no one else except for this dude. please dont insinuate that im some kind of whore
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..then why do you keep talking about the same guy in all your other 1000 posts about guys why not just make a thread called urcas guys so you can complain in it and not make other pointless ones. that are all about the same thing. you get played like a drum then bitch about it dont be so easy and you wouldnt have that problem.but for real you bitch about all kinds of shit.
 
cannabineer

cannabineer

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Urca said:
idk, i mean he does genuinely show care and concern for me, but thats rare to happen unless we're hanging out, then he's all cuddles and kisses and yeah... its confusing. or out of the blue he'll just call me to talk, but then i wont hear from him for forever.
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You want an FWB to be about F and not just about B. I sympathize with that. However April points out that for many, an FWB is a convenience, not a source of support. Imo you figured out that this guy is simply not a good match to your style. You need to find yourself a nerd guy imo: both sweet and spicy ... cn
 
Urca

Urca

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i only did what i did so that I wouldnt break down and try to reach him. I dont want him gone from my life, but I dont have the willpower to not to try to communicate with him. So Im waiting for him to talk to me.
I really hope he wants to keep talking to me.
He is a good guy, just hasnt been good to me
 
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