I am not sure what you were saying.
You said the account was activated but then you asked if you had to wait for Visa to send you a card.
Well if you have not yet received your actual card from Visa I know of no way that you could have actually activated it yet unless your bank has a different sort of setup with Visa than any bank I have ever used. Any debit card or credit card I have ever had, had to be activated by phoning the number on the sticker on the card after I received it.
So I am not sure what you meant when you asked if you could use "the one directly out of the package." I am not sure what "the package" is.
If you have an activated card from Visa in your hands and a balance that exceeds the amount you are spending, or have overdraft protection so you can exceed the balance in your account, there is no reason why your debit card should not be accepted by Attitude or anywhere else you attempt to use it.