Smoking people out?
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Hepheastus420
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Ehh to me she's complaining about a personal problem. I mean I don't have a problem with her, she's pretty cool, but it would be awesome if she could stick to one thread and ask as many questions heart heart wants to ask. Pike if I were to make a thread I would make it for the people of RIU, you know what I mean? Like instead of saying man I smoke people out and they don't share their stash with me; I would say hey fellow tokers, who else has that douchebag friend who smokes your weed and doesn't return the favor? See the difference?
Whenever I'm super stoned I feel like I'm saying rude things. So to ease the guilt I wish to give you a cyber pat, since you know you're a wolf and all,
. (pat, pat).And urca if you don't want to come out to straight forward (beat around the bush) just say "hey what are you puffing on", they will say "sour diesel" (or something like that), then be like "let's see who's weed is more potent, (laugh, laugh)".
Or you could just say hey let's test each others weed,
. Good luck though, and if they're dicks then you have the right to be a dick.
lambofgod
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Well one of the first things that comes to mind is the difference I've found between east coast and west coast smokers.
I've found on the east coast...its more of the "light a blunt and pass it around" out in cali I find it's more of a "everyone gets their own bong" type deal.
As for smoking another person out. I love too, and never want anything in return.
I smoke so much by myself that I find it a pleasure to smoke with someone else. But I have more then the average Urca whose buying her pot, so...
I've found on the east coast...its more of the "light a blunt and pass it around" out in cali I find it's more of a "everyone gets their own bong" type deal.
As for smoking another person out. I love too, and never want anything in return.
I smoke so much by myself that I find it a pleasure to smoke with someone else. But I have more then the average Urca whose buying her pot, so...
Hepheastus420
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Yup same here, I don't have to deal with that problem though because I typically hang out with people that are cool enough to not completely rip me off.
lambofgod
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lol ya same here...and I hang with a lot of growers ...so It's almost impossible to find someone just using me for weed, cause most of the time they have more then I do.
lexros
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some of my friends did the same last year they just came over and smoked up
but after like 3 weeks of it i had to stop it its my money after all
i didnt ignore them i just called them up when i was going out to buy some weed
and asked if they wanted to buy some too and give me the money for it later
gradually they got the idea and i was able to hook them up with the dealer,
sometimes they smoke yours because they dont have any other hook ups.
just recommend a dealer to them
happy smoking
but after like 3 weeks of it i had to stop it its my money after all
i didnt ignore them i just called them up when i was going out to buy some weed
and asked if they wanted to buy some too and give me the money for it later
gradually they got the idea and i was able to hook them up with the dealer,
sometimes they smoke yours because they dont have any other hook ups.
just recommend a dealer to them
happy smoking
THENUMBER1022
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I'm on the east coast! I have a nice bong and love to smoke blunts every motherfuckin day. Here it's three hits then pass on the blunts. people are always like "WHAT? THREE?" ...yes.....three hits from a 6 inch long perfectly rolled dutchmaster should do just fine, it has all these years.
THENUMBER1022
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YOURE DOING IT WRONG! if they smoke yours, its because they don't FEEL like they are "real" pot smokers, so their hits aren't as "real" as yours.....
Process this thought.....
now slap them in the the back of the head. I can't even count how many "friends" I have that think they are "lightweights" but no, you are taking just as many hits, our lungs are the same size, you are still burning my pricey nugs.
If they are mooching off you and not willing to throw down, giving them your dealers number is only going to make you lose your source. Cuz they don't know the game obviously, or you wouldn't have these problems with them. They are going to hit up YOUR dude and starts begging for fronts and half grams, just keep what works for yourself and tell them to work their asses off and find a dealer just like you had to.
For a while I was buying oz's and selling it off to my so-called-friends, but you end up broke and stressed out, and weedless. You need to get in the point in your life where you can say "no. fuck it. this is my weed and I need to make sure I don't stress out over not having it, just because my moocher friends smoked it all and dipped without throwing down."
no.
Fuck that.
THENUMBER1022
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just thinking about it has me fucking livid.
all the "friends" that wait around for hours, waiting for you to pack the bong so they can take the last rip and say "man its pretty late, im pretty tired, think im gonna go". Yeah fuck you. I don't think so.
defriended a 'friend' for taking 7 hits off my blunt that I rolled after picking him up from his house because he wanted to quit his job and stop driving his car so he wouldnt have to pay insurance. He was like "I dont count how many I take. sorry."
In my house, my blunt, my weed, you do count motherfucker!
he proceeded to tell everyone I know, that I am selfish with my weed.
all the "friends" that wait around for hours, waiting for you to pack the bong so they can take the last rip and say "man its pretty late, im pretty tired, think im gonna go". Yeah fuck you. I don't think so.
defriended a 'friend' for taking 7 hits off my blunt that I rolled after picking him up from his house because he wanted to quit his job and stop driving his car so he wouldnt have to pay insurance. He was like "I dont count how many I take. sorry."
In my house, my blunt, my weed, you do count motherfucker!
he proceeded to tell everyone I know, that I am selfish with my weed.
Dislexicmidget2021
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I hate when friends become vultures,u gotta be str8 forward withem otherwise they arent gonna get it,Bring yur own next time or i dont smoke u out ever.
THENUMBER1022
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call me retarded, but isn't it "smoking up" ?
Wouldnt "smoking out" imply making someone leave by smoking them up, to the extent of them wanting out?
Its just odd how "smoking people out" gets threaded by urca three hours after "smoke out anyone" is created. I have never ever ever heard "smoking out" in terms of smoking up your friends, but you guys keep saying it in your posts...
Wouldnt "smoking out" imply making someone leave by smoking them up, to the extent of them wanting out?
Its just odd how "smoking people out" gets threaded by urca three hours after "smoke out anyone" is created. I have never ever ever heard "smoking out" in terms of smoking up your friends, but you guys keep saying it in your posts...
Urca
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The thing is, its mainly my sister and our friend from childhood. Now my sister will smoke me out from time to time, or when i dont have any weed she'll break me off a bit, but not nearly as much as I do for her. Which doesnt bother me, its my sister, and plus my brother constantly smoked me out and still will, so I feel like its paying it forward.
Its the friend who pisses me off. I never see her drop on anything, but sometimes she will. But she put me on blast for having no money when she has to ask for money to get some. And everytime I light up, she's there, and like I feel like it couldnt hurt to let her smoke a little. Wrong. She gets super fucking high off of my weed, and if my sister is standing there, she'll just pass her the pipe without asking. In my head im like, "wait a minute, when did my sister get in on this?"
but my sister has good manners and always askes before hitting the pipe when its passed to her. So I let her. But its like fuck! Dude I smoke you out all the time, and you have yet to ever even consider returning the favor.
Shit, the other day she was like "hey i know you got weed, smoke me out. jk jk" <---- not just kidding you mooching bitch!
/rant
Its the friend who pisses me off. I never see her drop on anything, but sometimes she will. But she put me on blast for having no money when she has to ask for money to get some. And everytime I light up, she's there, and like I feel like it couldnt hurt to let her smoke a little. Wrong. She gets super fucking high off of my weed, and if my sister is standing there, she'll just pass her the pipe without asking. In my head im like, "wait a minute, when did my sister get in on this?"
but my sister has good manners and always askes before hitting the pipe when its passed to her. So I let her. But its like fuck! Dude I smoke you out all the time, and you have yet to ever even consider returning the favor.
Shit, the other day she was like "hey i know you got weed, smoke me out. jk jk" <---- not just kidding you mooching bitch!
/rant
THENUMBER1022
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Erica I fucking hate that shit.
I brought a blunt of some sweet tooth rolled up in a nice fat peach game to my girlfriends friends house. Its just me, my girl, and her friend...
Start smoking it,I start it, pass it to my girl, she puffs, someone walks in the front door... my girl gives it to her friend, then her friend gives it to her friend. I'm like "when the fuck did this turn into 'lets smoke robs blunt' day?" I fucking hate when people just keep passing it to someone else in the room. I like to share but parties are no place for pot. so eventually 50 people are coming in and everyone smelling the sweet smells and begging me for pot because they are drunk but 'dont normally smoke'... fuck no. And then when we slipped down to the basement for another toke, this time a bubbler, guess who shows up? me+my girlfriend+her friend+the friend that toked without asking before+three other people. I just stood there holding the bubbler and lighter until they all shut the fuck up, and said "so who's throwing down?" and everyone but my girl and her friend left.
You just gotta be straight foward. Its not like they think you get it for free. nothing is ruder than smoking someone elses hard earned weed without asking or throwing down.
Sometimes I'll be so fucking bored, I'll offer a cut with a good friend and don't expect them to chip in. But thats only if I'm dying of boredom and need to get away from my girl.
I brought a blunt of some sweet tooth rolled up in a nice fat peach game to my girlfriends friends house. Its just me, my girl, and her friend...
Start smoking it,I start it, pass it to my girl, she puffs, someone walks in the front door... my girl gives it to her friend, then her friend gives it to her friend. I'm like "when the fuck did this turn into 'lets smoke robs blunt' day?" I fucking hate when people just keep passing it to someone else in the room. I like to share but parties are no place for pot. so eventually 50 people are coming in and everyone smelling the sweet smells and begging me for pot because they are drunk but 'dont normally smoke'... fuck no. And then when we slipped down to the basement for another toke, this time a bubbler, guess who shows up? me+my girlfriend+her friend+the friend that toked without asking before+three other people. I just stood there holding the bubbler and lighter until they all shut the fuck up, and said "so who's throwing down?" and everyone but my girl and her friend left.
You just gotta be straight foward. Its not like they think you get it for free. nothing is ruder than smoking someone elses hard earned weed without asking or throwing down.
Sometimes I'll be so fucking bored, I'll offer a cut with a good friend and don't expect them to chip in. But thats only if I'm dying of boredom and need to get away from my girl.
THENUMBER1022
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I love how whenever you find a quiet corner at a party to toke up with one or two friends, the room just fucking fills up, and everyones just staring at whoevers got the bowl, and whoevers got the bowl is usually drunk and not looking at the person that packed it, and hands it to someone you have never seen before. god that shit turns my stomach!
Urca
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Im just happy that my sister knows to ask before she hits it, and its because she asks that I say yes.
Note, that mooch for weed is generally a nice person, and I do offer to do it. However, she just like kinda expects me to offer. And when I offer I usually mean like one bowl then let me finish smoking, but then i feel guilty so im like, fine, here, just smoke the rest of this (most green) bowl. Hoping that she would understand that im being really generous. Nope. Only like 1/4th of the time does she say thank you, and after she smokes she goes and hangs out with my sister, and im stuck like alone. But if my sister is no where around we smoke and have a good time. Idk, its frustrating how she's a generally ok person, but does that shit
Another irrittating story. I was smoking a bowl alone outside, but hella people were rolling up blunts and joints inside. I didnt know if they were gonna let me smoke with them, so I was smoking my last bowl. The guy who's weed they were rolling up came outside and asked me if he could hit the pipe. I said sure, knowing he'd let me smoke what they were rolling inside if i let him smoke that dank ass bowl with me. then, out comes this guy, nick. Nick sees us smoking and we're just passing it back and forth between me and the first guy. All the sudden Nick asks, "what about me?"
And In my head im thinking, "What the fuck about you, you didnt even ask!!" But the first guy and i hella stared at him, and finally we just looked at each other. And I said, "when did you get in on this?" He's like "Erica come on." So I let him hit it, but i was pissed off. it all balanced out though, we smoked hella that day.
Note, that mooch for weed is generally a nice person, and I do offer to do it. However, she just like kinda expects me to offer. And when I offer I usually mean like one bowl then let me finish smoking, but then i feel guilty so im like, fine, here, just smoke the rest of this (most green) bowl. Hoping that she would understand that im being really generous. Nope. Only like 1/4th of the time does she say thank you, and after she smokes she goes and hangs out with my sister, and im stuck like alone. But if my sister is no where around we smoke and have a good time. Idk, its frustrating how she's a generally ok person, but does that shit
Another irrittating story. I was smoking a bowl alone outside, but hella people were rolling up blunts and joints inside. I didnt know if they were gonna let me smoke with them, so I was smoking my last bowl. The guy who's weed they were rolling up came outside and asked me if he could hit the pipe. I said sure, knowing he'd let me smoke what they were rolling inside if i let him smoke that dank ass bowl with me. then, out comes this guy, nick. Nick sees us smoking and we're just passing it back and forth between me and the first guy. All the sudden Nick asks, "what about me?"
And In my head im thinking, "What the fuck about you, you didnt even ask!!" But the first guy and i hella stared at him, and finally we just looked at each other. And I said, "when did you get in on this?" He's like "Erica come on." So I let him hit it, but i was pissed off. it all balanced out though, we smoked hella that day.
man so true
i hate wasting weed on people that don't really smoke
What i do is always smoke with my closest friends. And what goes around comes around. Im usually the one without weed. They know it. But they have much better hook ups so im in charge of munchies. Also whenever someones' out of money we all (3 of us) chip in for everybody. We try later to even out whatever each payed, but later we would pay for something so in the end we just know we will get payed back either in weed or food xD
Plus once i helped my cousin start his grow (check it out) and i got part of the loot
I had the best weed and it was my turn to smoke them "out".
I guess it all works out because we are really close.
THENUMBER1022
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I know, I know.... I knew my friend Jonny since 6th grade, he's the one who convinced me to smoke when we snuck to our friends house.. He always would split bags ten and ten for mids for like three years, got out of highschool and I moved out, he stayed home and turned into a straight up bitch. with his girl every day, wont chill. I understand giving your girl time but you gotta hang out with "buddies" more than once a month if that... couple years later and he's been over like twenty, twenty five times to smoke a blunt and hasnt thrown down. And I pack a fat bong afterwords, and right aftwards he leaves every fuckin time. its ridiculous. Some people just turn to straight up nigs(not the black kind) and you cant change them back, they are forever moochers.
My girlfriend has a old friend just like mine that keeps hitting us up to smoke a blunt, and never throws down, I keep sending her texts that I have it....twenty a g or 60 and eighth....decent prices for nice buds, and she wont reply. just hits up my girl a few days later to smoke a blunt. never brings money or offers, we sometimes ask and she says "sorry I didn't bring any" ....if you're really that broke, either grow it or take a fucking break. I can't be a smoking outlet for someones habit.
It sounds like you really just need to put your foot down. Just say, next time you are all together and they are putting their hands out, tell em "you know this does cost me money, so you guys can't keep smoking for free everday. throw down or get your own". I have taken advice from venting on here and ultimately you will know this is the right decision. You can't continue to allow someone to take advantage and get away with it just because they play dumb. No one is that dumb.
My girlfriend has a old friend just like mine that keeps hitting us up to smoke a blunt, and never throws down, I keep sending her texts that I have it....twenty a g or 60 and eighth....decent prices for nice buds, and she wont reply. just hits up my girl a few days later to smoke a blunt. never brings money or offers, we sometimes ask and she says "sorry I didn't bring any" ....if you're really that broke, either grow it or take a fucking break. I can't be a smoking outlet for someones habit.
It sounds like you really just need to put your foot down. Just say, next time you are all together and they are putting their hands out, tell em "you know this does cost me money, so you guys can't keep smoking for free everday. throw down or get your own". I have taken advice from venting on here and ultimately you will know this is the right decision. You can't continue to allow someone to take advantage and get away with it just because they play dumb. No one is that dumb.
THENUMBER1022
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Word thats what I'm sayin. If you didn't bring weed, bring a bottle, bring a pizza, bring some fuckin munchie food. How dare you come here empty handed and expect me to smoke you up? I'm not your parents, I dont have to take care of you! I dont associate with people like that anymore, aside from the quiet nights, I don't miss them at all.