Pissed Off. Please HELP!

Soooo here is whats going on.

The Grow :
4 h x 2w x 2w Grow Box.
4x 23 W cfls
1x 40 W Flourescent.

I have 4 Party cups with decent sized seedlings, 1 gallon sized pot with a 1 foot plant, and in a 1 1/2 gallon pot i have a "supposedly dank" plant (which i dont doubt it is).
All of this mind you is a 12/12 from seed so they aren't going to be huge especially since i am not even use that much light.

THE PROBLEM:
Due to the fact i dont have my own place, i grow at one of my good friends house. Now, we have tried this before, but never really got anywhere because he never contributed anything and i just hadn't done my homework. Well about a month ago i take the time to build a growbox, get the lights, start germing seeds. I do freaking everything. Now the only thing my friend contributed, was the space (which in all honesty i could use a attic in my garage at home if i wanted to). Since December 1st i have put hours of time in building and research. Finally, things are taking off to what i have now. Now i originally told my friend that i did not want anyone knowing about this. But he thinks my bushy 1 gallon plant is so cool he has to tell "bob".
Soo...whatever, in my mind i didnt want him to know, but if he trusted "bob" then i guess i cant do anything.
So my buddy says he can get a dank seed off bob (what i got in the biggest pot now), so i said sure, whatever man. I didn't care because i didnt think he'd be getting bob involved.

THE REAL PROBLEM:

Today me and my buddy where playing rock band talking about the grow and i was saying what i was doing to it, since i added some light today. He said that because "bob" supplied the genetics (1 seed), that he's giving "bob" a third of what we harvest off of the dank 1 1/2 plant.
What i dont get is why would i give someone who hasn't done shit for work, a huge percentage of my harvest. I built the box, i germed the seeds, i got the equipment, I have dont everything aside from getting 1 seed. and because "bob" gave use 1 seed that we planted He's entitled to my weed? 33% of my harvest is all i get of my hard work, that some douchebag that i dont even like gets the same amount as me.
Me= 33%
Bob= 33%
Friend= 33%
Needless to say, i am pissed. I dont know what to do. I still want to keep my grow going but i dont know what to do about the bigger pot that has the dank. Should i even grow now? Whats the point if i harvest 10 grams and only get 3.

Please Please someone give me advice on this.

yeah m8 seems a bit much of a return to me, explain that u aint expecting much yield, he can either have some cuttings or u aint gunna bother, sounds like someone trying to shaft your anal passage m8

i would clorox the whole grow and start again when i had my own place

Yea. i am about half tempted to over fert them or switch out the dank seedling with a midis seed. i put in all of the work and my friend thinks that i would give my stuff up like that. he doesnt even deserve any. He doesnt even water them. he just plays computer and gets drunk

thats what happens when you grow with partners..... its best to just do it yourself for yourself...

Does anyone else have any suggestions about what to do about my dilema.

As in if i sabotage how should i do it?
Should i take seedlings or cuttings and start my own micro grow in my room?
Anything would be helpful.

This is a prime example why you shouldn't involve other people in your grow. See how your buddy told "Bob"? Who says "Bob" isn't going to tell just 1 of his buddies? And that buddy tells another buddy..................Well, you get the picture. Besides the fact that too many people know about it you've created some bad blood. Is a little bit of weed worth a friendship? My advice is to get through this grow, give "Bob" his 33% and don't ever grow with these 2 clowns again or anybody else for that matter.

Doc, that is definetely some good advice. Along with everything else, i now realize that even if you grow with someone who you have never had problems with, things can and probably will go bad. It's put such a bad taste in my mouth that i barely want to continue. Obviously my buddy continually wont contribute anything except C02 from his body. By tomorrow i will have done something about this. With my amount of light and space, i could get a lot more harvest if i just focused on my other plants instead of the dank bigger potted one. I won't let this destroy a friendship, but i will not be taken advantage of. especially when i put my time and money and soul into something. And im sure if he didnt think i knew what i was doing he probably wouldn't of committed that 33%. I mean damn, 33% of what would probably be my biggest plant just because of pot size and light i was going to give it.

Loose lips sink ships. Forget sabotage I'd just rip the plants and say fuck it. It deff aint worth ruining a friendship but all aside almost everyone I know that's been busted was because of blabbermouths. Your biggest risk will always be word of mouth. You should wait till you can go solo. Less hastle

I dont want my friend to think anything is up if i do this. i told him the 33% was cool (but was not thinking that ).

Should i wait for it to grow big enuf where i can take cuttings? Or give it some undiluted nutrients ?

you've got years of growing ahead of you don't get wrapped up in this kind of drama ,pull the plug too many people know ,put it away and get some known genetics when you are ready

yea.. i am 22. sounds like i am going to scrap it then. I will post RIP pics following a few hours

I'd tell him he can split 33 percent with Bob and if not cut it down cause either way ur n a bad situation...I feel for u man but u live n learn

my son is 22 i'm 45 and am looking forward to growing for many years to come get your must do things out of the way then focus on the hobbies good luck ...rob

The largest, most vigorous plants in any seed grow often turn out to be male Bob can have 33 percent of that.

lol pinch some off at the last week of growing and dry it some were else...

Phreak8987 said:

I dont want my friend to think anything is up if i do this. i told him the 33% was cool (but was not thinking that ).

Should i wait for it to grow big enuf where i can take cuttings? Or give it some undiluted nutrients ?

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You should of expressed your feelings from the beginning......and if your friend did not agree then...agree to disagree and do your own thing....but now all you can do is discuss this with your friend and voice your op,communication is the key to resolve any problem.Never make the same mistakes twice....grow by yourself...

Give him the same price attitude has the seed for cash. It will be like 12 bucks. Fuck bob!

jcdws602 said:

You should of expressed your feelings from the beginning......and if your friend did not agree then...agree to disagree and do your own thing....but now all you can do is discuss this with your friend and voice your op,communication is the key to resolve any problem.Never make the same mistakes twice....grow by yourself...

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I think the reason i didnt express my opinion was because i was in shock at the fact that he went ahead and said were going to do this 33%. He didnt even ask me. I put forth everything to get it going, all he did was let me put it in his nasty basement. and i mean nasty. Definetely a leason learned today. ALWAYS GROW ALONE. because if you do have a partner and they didnt do shit to help they'll think its theres to divy out. Just a shame i gotta go now and ruin something that could've been something awesome. I was worried in the beginning about how we would handle who would get what. Now i know, if i continue growing with him i'll just get shaded somewhere down the line. He has for the most part always been a good friend. But he does drink excessively. I mean getting drunk on some Turkey at 10A.M. then passing out at 6 P.M. to work at 10:30. I've left a bottle of a vodka there for half a day to come back to it half empty and got no apology. I wouldn't know what i'd do if i came over and found my cured buds getting smoked up. I guess i just thought maybe he wouldn't do me like that. But when it comes to things like this you can't take a chance.

Yea bob's a dick (not really his name haha). He said the reason he wants to give him 33% is because he always smoked him out with a blunt. But when i am there he never smokes with me. I swear he doesnt like me and i just dont know. I ask him all the time to try to get a 8th of middis ( and my buddy tells me he has like 8 connections ) and he always gives me an excuse. Last week i asked my buddy to ask bob and bob said his dude wont answer his calls because he thinks the cops are watching him...i mean come on. how many times have i heard that same bullshit excuse. I even went out of my way to make a hour long trip to get bob some 65 an eigth shit and got no thanks in return. Help a guy out and he wont help you back.

Definetely a shitty situation my buddy put me in. What does he expect to happen. I AM THE ONLY ONE WHO EVER DID WORK AND THE ONLY ONE WHO DID ANYTHING. cant wait to fuck this seedling up