Mom caught me.

Dont let your mom guilt trip you to bad.

Take her out for lunch?

play this song constantly and lock yourself in your room..
[video=youtube;BBbugCHm3B4]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBbugCHm3B4[/video]

just have an honest talk with he. The sooner the better. Just tell her how you feel.

bubbler.toker said:

Im 18 why??

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oooooH good answer

I think there are probably a lot more important details relating to his moms/families moral beliefs that were not getting so its probably not as easy for him as some of you guys may think...

Do NOT smoke in your room anymore...lol

I see what he did there

Its mom;s house. Respect her rules. If not, get out to your own place.

Its all part of the growning up phase of life.. like, being switched over to 12/12.. You just know its time to grow wings & fly..

ok.. too baked..

ps Buy her a nice smelly candle. You can hide the smell of the weed when your not obeying her rules at night

2 birds with 1 stoner??

LOL!

carl.burnette said:

Its mom;s house. Respect her rules. If not, get out to your own place.

Its all part of the growning up phase of life.. like, being switched over to 12/12.. You just know its time to grow wings & fly..

ok.. too baked..

ps Buy her a nice smelly candle. You can hide the smell of the weed when your not obeying her rules at night

2 birds with 1 stoner??

LOL!

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LMAO +rep.....

Build a box big enough for you to sit in. Tell your mom its a better way to study for school. Here on RIU look for the thread how to make a scrubber useing pencil holders and charcoal...attach that to back side have a hole cut and put a fan next to it and smoke all you want the the scrubber will filter smell.....just remember to sit there an extra minute or two after smokeing to make sure it gets scrubed and she wont catch you again.

Get a vape!!! Now your not smoking your vaping. Problem solved next!!

Weed has made me realise that we live out own life, and not to let anyone influence you into something you dont want to do. E.g stop smoking weed. Its your life, fair enough its in her house, but just go outside, smoke a blunt, come back in. But it seems your blaming weed and your agreeing with her? If you dont like weed and you want to stop, why are you on this forum?

djdestroyer said:

My mom cried when she first found out about me as well... To be honest, I wish I would have listened to her back then when she told me I didn't need it. It started off very recreational for me (only on weekends, parties, etc.) but once I moved out, it slowly increased until I was smoking everyday. Took me about 3 years of smoking multiple times a day to realize it was terrible for my health, and 2 more years for me to quit. I'm only 27 days clean but I can tell you it's no different once you get over the psychological/physical dependencies. I can still relax and chill, I just find other means. Growing is still a hobby for me though!

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The most important thing is for you to decide for yourself if you really want to smoke & the pros & cons of that choice, it has to be your choice. (The above comment could be you years down the road or not).

If you trust your mom & if her reactions or what she had to say made you feel like you should quit, then I would follow your instinct, because maybe then you really were looking for a reason to stop, because you aren't ready for it on one level or another to accept it yourself. Whatever choice you make will be the right choice, if you can live with it. MJ use is an individual thing, depending upon the user & their individual lifestyle, morals, beliefs, & many other things. For some people it can be good, even great, & for others it can be not so good.

Don't bother buying mom anything, that is like a bribe or asking for forgiveness with a gift & in this case I think highly inappropriate. For someone who is truly upset or against you doing such a thing, a gift I think would be highly upsetting & insulting. A parent wants only one thing for you & your life, the very best you can make it, for you to be healthy, safe, & happy. And obviously MJ use is going to stir up all those emotions from mom, and questions...are you hurting yourself, are you going to get caught & go to jail, are you doing other drugs, what else doesn't she know about her sweet baby boy etc.

The gift you need to give her is REASSURANCE. Let her know, that she knows YOU. Clarify that you are not doing other drugs if that is the case. APOLOGIZE profusely about your disrespect in the fact you were smoking in her home & you had no right to do that without discussing it with her first, period. You had no right to subject her to your usage & possible ramifications from such (gettting busted) in her home, thereby putting her at risk. Let her know you will NEVER smoke again in her home, unless she is okay with that, & MEAN IT. Other then that, you are an adult, it has to be your choice, but mom need not know about your usage & shouldn't know because ADULTS keep their private business, PRIVATE. Tell her you love her & you are sorry & promise she has nothing to worry about & ask her if you can both pretend you didn't make the mistake you made by smoking at home, because you are the SAME person you were before she saw you doing that. And finally tell her, her opinions, feelings & advice are still very important and you will always truly take anything she has to say to heart & really consider what she has said. If she didn't tell you, ask her directly what are her specific concerns, & then address them indivdually & answer her honestly.

I think you will be just fine, & it sounds like she did a great job raising you, for you to reach out like you did about this issue in your life and to want to make her feel better and that you care that much about mom.

bubbler.toker said:

so my mom caught me smoking in my room. She was crying and dissapointed. I tried explaining that i only do it at night when im playing games so i can chill its not like im doing anything bad. But still she wouldnt listen. Im gonna apologize and tell her i do not need it and that it was better that she caught me so i coulda stopped. I can stop whenever i want and i will stop tomorrow when i go out buying her a gift. I have 40 bucks to spend anyone have any suggestions¿

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ahh hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

i feel like such an asshole telling you not to smoke in your mom's house because i know damn well when i was that age i would have tried every trick in the book. if you're 18 i assume you're probably a senior in high school. if that's the case the best present you can give your mom is graduating with good grades. put her mind at ease about the whole thing because she probably has all these visions of you becoming a slacker. but for the short term i like your box of chocolates idea. and maybe a nice "i won't do it in the house anymore" speech. and then really take it outside. it's not nice to upset your mother.

Look her right in the eyes and don't stop just keep doing it and make sure she gets a good look at it don't break eye contact and ask if she wants to join in....say whens the last time you got something like this...you just might get lucky...and if not she will deffinitly knock before she walks in your room.

I didnt start growing till; 4 years ago wel out of the house and my mom came ove rto see what weed actually looked like when it was growing as she was a young adult in the 70's and had her share. I am sure she would smoke with me if I asked her too, but I dont force the subject.

LOL dont buy her shit. if she thinks weed is the devil she doesnt deserve a gift

tru that. when i started smoking, my mom really didnt care and just wanted me to smoke at home so i didnt get caught. shes always been very cool about stuff like that thankfully. shes even came around to the idea of growing and encourages me to do so. i wish everyone knew this freedom cause it made growing up that much easier.

This is one of the best advice I have gotten. The only con I can pretty much sum up is that I wont be able to have as much fun playing games with my friends. (Online) 3 of us smoke in our rooms and play Black Ops together, its soo much fun. So I only smoked at night to play video games.

No I dont do any other drugs I have never even tried a cigarette cause I think theyre disgusting.

I really do want to stop while living with her, which will be about 2 more years, that I wont be doing it. I kinda had the idea of breaking my bubbler in pieces to make sure I wont be able to smoke, I suck horribly at using papers. Im gonna try to explain to her that what I was doing wasnt bad at all, just the fact that I was smoking in the house.

I want to get her at least a box of chocolates since those arent expensive.

the weird funny thing is my parents let me grow outdoor then indoor when i was 13 but they wouldnt let me smoke after a while they didnt care but now noone can tell me when where what to smoke when im in my house

bubbler.toker said:

This is one of the best advice I have gotten. The only con I can pretty much sum up is that I wont be able to have as much fun playing games with my friends. (Online) 3 of us smoke in our rooms and play Black Ops together, its soo much fun. So I only smoked at night to play video games.

No I dont do any other drugs I have never even tried a cigarette cause I think theyre disgusting.

I really do want to stop while living with her, which will be about 2 more years, that I wont be doing it. I kinda had the idea of breaking my bubbler in pieces to make sure I wont be able to smoke, I suck horribly at using papers. Im gonna try to explain to her that what I was doing wasnt bad at all, just the fact that I was smoking in the house.

I want to get her at least a box of chocolates since those arent expensive.

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show her a documentary on pot. show her its not what she thinks it is. if she doesnt like u smoking in the house, offer to do it in the backyard