Lace and Frills <3

i dig the ear muffs but whos the chick in the pictures

Heheh. God RIU is one of a kind. In a terrible way, but still.

kuroi, my advice to you, as always, is to just leave or just get all crazy in his face.
lol you and i are very similar, never been in a relationship, never been really wanted by anyone. You have alot more potential than I do... you're slim, have nice hair and skin, young, and quirky... all sounds like a win. And you know my faults already... short, fat, the occaisional flare of a skin condition. You have soo much more going for you than me, and it makes me sad when you cant see that.
Be strong!

Do you think it's going to help to point out all your faults? Stop feeling sorry for yourself and being so vain. The only kind of guy its ever going to work out with, EVER, for a girl, is a guy that values another trait over superficiality. It's not looks. So stop moping around because you're not a supermodel.

lol i thought being vain implied you thought you were good looking? and its just, how do you get past a life life of conditioning that you are not pretty, that the only man who will want you is a guy with no standards, and you better let him treat you how he wants to, or else he will leave you all alone? Its hard to go through school never having a boyfriend, never having a date, going to prom alone or with a huge group of friends... Or even worse, have guys start talking to you, telling you they dont care about your weight, etc... then two weeks later get a skinny gf, or just stop talking to you all together... Im not complaining that Im not a super model...

By vanity I mean obssessed with appearance. I never said you're complaining that you're not a supermodel. I'm saying that you're moping because you want to be attractive. If a guy wont talk to you because youre not gorgeous then why the fuck would you give him a second thought? You can always become more attractive, but you can't doctor your true personality.

If you're not going to a Costume party... then lose it.

The Cryptkeeper said:

By vanity I mean obssessed with appearance. I never said you're complaining that you're not a supermodel. I'm saying that you're moping because you want to be attractive. If a guy wont talk to you because youre not gorgeous then why the fuck would you give him a second thought? You can always become more attractive, but you can't doctor your true personality.

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The thing is, guys will talk to me... they even flirt a little bit... but then BAM they dont want anything to do with me further than that. Ive never in my life heard a guy tell me to my face that I looked good... if they say it, they'll say it through a text, or on the computer or whatever. Then they completely deny saying it. Or they told me they said it because they thought it would make me want to fuck.

Ive only ever kissed one guy, done stuff with one guy... I had to wait until a week and a half after I turned 18 to get my first kiss. Ive been told by several guys that any guy who would date me would be ashamed to take me out in public, ashamed that he ever fucked me, that all i'd be is a dirty little secret

Does every female on RIU on self-esteem issues or is all this insecurity text deep?

lol i think its just me and kuroi. btw, i can fake confidence in the real world like a mofo. it makes me a great public speaker, i can make friends fairly easy, its easy to talk to new people, it helped as a performer.

Urca said:

lol i think its just me and kuroi. btw, i can fake confidence in the real world like a mofo. it makes me a great public speaker, i can make friends fairly easy, its easy to talk to new people, it helped as a performer.

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At SeaWorld?

This thread is gona make me have a period.......

BRB grabbing 'Pons......Max flow SON!!!

But on the real little emo girl, someone gave you the best advise you will ever get a few pages back..... NONE OF THIS WILL MATTER IN 5 YEARS..... sht 5 months....prolly. Ur young and cute, one day you will be walking through some Comic book store or costume shop and some guy dressed up like Cowboy Bebop will be like "Sup" and ur hormones will go crazy and ull forget all about this other guy......Trust me, i though every relationship was my last when i was young too..
you'll grow up and get over all this, chll.

Trust me, with ur face and body, some dudes will be knocking on your door soon enough. Until then...chill.

r1tony said:

At SeaWorld?

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haha yeah, i was shuka's back up.

in all seriousness, I was a dancer for 4 years

Also ur Britsh black...which is WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY hotter than USA black. That accent and proper way of speaking does alot of you...... your location just brought you from a 5- to a 7+
American black chicks are ghetto nasty asses..... IMO. Cant stand people that dont speak well......

^i hate to agree, but it is true to an extent. the guys are just as bad... hate ghetto black dudes. Have no problem with the ones that act like normal human beings though.

Urca said:

haha yeah, i was shuka's back up.

in all seriousness, I was a dancer for 4 years

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strip club?

Urca said:

^i hate to agree, but it is true to an extent. the guys are just as bad... hate ghetto black dudes. Have no problem with the ones that act like normal human beings though.

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RACIST!!! HATE MONGER!!!!!!

^^
But no srsly, hearing "Nah m sayin" and nigga all the time gets old as fuck... I have black friends but none of them act like they are stupid adn ignorant ghetto trash. and some of them came from some of the worst places in the USA.

Lets get back to the dress up show.....

lol yeah i stripped from the age of 14 until i was 18... um, nope.
I was a dancer in high school, was forced into it at first by my own laziness, realized it was fucking demanding as shit, tried to quit, fell in love with it, and kept doing it through out high school. I worked my ass off. I mean, I was fat still through out high school, but dancing made me flexible, gave me rythym, etc... I worked so hard and loved it so much I was moved into the advanced class. I was the biggest girl at every performance we did, every time we danced with other school I was the biggest... Yet i still out danced alot of people, and way more flexible than alot of people are. Used to be able to do the splits on both legs, and down the middle

i don't understand this thread.

Philosophist said:

RACIST!!! HATE MONGER!!!!!!

^^
But no srsly, hearing "Nah m sayin" and nigga all the time gets old as fuck... I have black friends but none of them act like they are stupid adn ignorant ghetto trash. and some of them came from some of the worst places in the USA.

Lets get back to the dress up show.....

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Lol i dont play dress up, i can never find good costumes...