in serious need of some dating advice

Keenly2

Keenly2

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blazin256 said:
fuck it, keep all 3.
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i barely had the energy for 2, so 3 is out of the question, believe me it takes a LOT of upkeep to keep 3 girls happy


but the most IRONIC thing just happened


i just got off the phone with 1, we are no longer together, HA

life is just funny sometimes, time to roll a blunt and celebrate my temporary freedom ;)


thanks guys
 
darkdestruction420

darkdestruction420

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well, i would say goodbye to number 1. as for number 3-are you sure you want to commit to someone you dont really know right away, you could end up hating girl 3 and not having girl 2 to fall back on.you could be honest with them, tell them you want to see other people still, it doesnt seem like your real serious with either yet. or just keep 2 on the side for now.
 
Keenly2

Keenly2

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i have known number 3 for almost a year, and yeah, im 100% sure i would like to commit to her

i have never been happier in my entire life than when i am with her, and i dont even feel the desire to smoke, not that its going to stop me ha
 
blazin256

blazin256

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Keenly2 said:
i barely had the energy for 2, so 3 is out of the question, believe me it takes a LOT of upkeep to keep 3 girls happy


but the most IRONIC thing just happened


i just got off the phone with 1, we are no longer together, HA

life is just funny sometimes, time to roll a blunt and celebrate my temporary freedom ;)


thanks guys
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holy shit dude, the RIU gods have spoken.
 
Keenly2

Keenly2

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had to post the update

banged 3 today

all i did was whip out the guitar and play 2 songs, twas just that easy
 
Sr. Verde

Sr. Verde

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Learn Tears in Heaven by eric clapton. Bitches love that song

Congrats on getting the girl, I wish you success in your pursuit of happiness.
 
SouthernGanja

SouthernGanja

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I only read the OP.

Breaking up is easy. Wanna see difficult?...Try Divorce.

Life is too damn short to delay doing what YOU want to do. Stop fucking around and tell these other two the truth.
 
Serapis

Serapis

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Keenly2 said:
all my bases are covered, not one girl knows anything about the others, and im not throwing away the time i spent with her

i dated her from the time i was 18 (21 next month WOOO) until now... i can not stand her, i am not attracted to her and have no desire to be with her, the passion / interest is gone

i dont feel like i can be myself around her because if i do or say anything she doesnt agree with she gets all pissy and pouty


also, this is the kind of girl who will demand my phone just so she can go through it and read all my texts and listen to my voicemails etc


NOT girlfriend materiel

also, none of them are psycho bitches, so i wont be getting my car keyed or tires slashed etc...
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Then why the hell did you lead her on for 3 years? You may not consider it tossing away three years of a relationship, but she sure as hell will.

It sounds like you need to have a mano e mano talk with yourself and step up and be a man. You've allowed 3 women to fall in love or demonstrate a physical attraction to you. It stoked your ego and you weren't man enough to say no or break off the first relationship by now.

As far as dating a woman from work, you are just asking for trouble. If you like or rely on your job, you'll think long and hard before allowing that relationship to go any further.
 
Sr. Verde

Sr. Verde

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Serapis said:
Then why the hell did you lead her on for 3 years? You may not consider it tossing away three years of a relationship, but she sure as hell will.

It sounds like you need to have a mano e mano talk with yourself and step up and be a man. You've allowed 3 women to fall in love or demonstrate a physical attraction to you. It stoked your ego and you weren't man enough to say no or break off the first relationship by now.

As far as dating a woman from work, you are just asking for trouble. If you like or rely on your job, you'll think long and hard before allowing that relationship to go any further.
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The dude is only in his 20's like most people here. Most people in their 20's don't know exactly what they want they have to test the waters first.

chill :peace:
 
Greenplease

Greenplease

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Honesty is key brother, if you get to a point where you can't stand someone, then you weren't ever being honest, not even with yourself, if you were honest from the beginning then you would never have had to deal with any of this, because you would have broken up with 1 ages ago, honesty may seem hard at the time, but it saves you so much shit in the long run.

Now just tell 2 you don't want anything and get on with it. It will be all good.

Honesty is the best way in relationships, no doubt about it......
 
sharon1

sharon1

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Keenly2 said:
maybe you missed the point, i dont want to just bang # 3


and i was not aware that life = high school drama
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It makes no difference WHY you want to be with #3. You have every right to persue whomever you want.
But if you have never broken up with anyone, trust me my friend, this IS highschool drama.

Be honest. It's scary only because you don't have any experience with it.

Be sensitive but honest with your current gf. You don't have to tell her you can't stand her, just tell her that you want the freedom to date others.
It's scary, but it really is that simple. And once you have the experience under your belt, and see that your world won't cave in around you afterwards, you'll be happy and better off.

thought I was done reading and now I seee that you've moved on. Good for you and good luck.
 
kloopa

kloopa

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Keenly2 said:
being a dick is NOT an option, its just not who i am

also, phone / internet is not an option for ending it
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Your not going to come out this not looking like a dick, so eat the shit you shat and do it quick like a band-aid. The more you wait, the worse it will get, man up and be a dick.
 
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SysKonfig

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There is another option here we haven't looked at. Set up a weekly schedule. Since your current gf is your least favorite see her on Mon and Tues. Girl number 2 gets the rest of the week, and girl 3 gets the weekends. If a girl calls on her unassigned day tell her you got work, school, your cult doesn't allow you to leave the house on day X or whatever else you feel like telling her. This plan is 100% fail-safe, absolutely nothing can go wrong here! You can thank me later.

**Disclaimer** All SysKonfig's advice is meant for entertainment purposes only! SysKonfig is not liable for any events that occur as a result from advice given.
 
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