How would you feel/react?

Earlier tonight I caught my Gf lying to me about something stupid. A chore needed done and it was her turn to do it, I asked her to do it and she said she already did it today. I knew she hadn't done it, but she assured me when i went for a nap earlier she did it. I told her she was lying and she said she would swear on her life she did it. Then I noticed a bit of evidence that proved she was lying. Something so silly and insignificant has now got me feeling horrible emotions of mistrust and anger. I yelled at her, used strong language etc I don't even know if i'm overreacting or not ,it's so insignificant ,yet at the end of the day she has broken my trust to some degree .. am i overreacting about it or was i right to yell?.. would you feel the same way? this is the worst thing to happen so far in 5 years of being together.

I would have done it myself. Then I would have explained to her how worthless she is.

Hours later, I'd take her out to whatever food I felt like eating. And then apologize over dessert and fuck her when we got home.

I'm original. You're overreacting. The thing with women is, if we give them the little things, we get all the big ones.
If she wasn't cheating I'd say that 5 years is still worth it.

yes you over reacted. And say to her what you wrote here, see where it will bring you both. And think if you we're she and for some reason you lied even you didn't want to (sometimes shit happens in our heads). So yea. One love

Nah man, you didn't overreact. I probably would have done something similar. I dont like lying at all. Mistrust is a hard thing to overcome.

My advice.. let this one go. Let it be her get out of jail free pass. But the next time she does it, give her a little of her own medicine. If that doesnt work, talk to her seriously about it, in a calm manner. Chicks hate it when talk calm to them about something they did wrong and they know it... but it gets the point across.

edit: ahh shit man.. i just read the last sentence... dude, if youve been together for 5 years and this is the worst thing thats happened... definitely, 100% let it go. you have bigger fish to fry..... if she keeps doing it, or the lies become bigger.. then you have a problem.... also, be warned.. the 7 year itch is just around the corner... be aware of that..

Chill, find a mellow place to contemplate, and ask yourself if you are overreacting, if you are having a fit of sensitivity to subtle changes, or if it's just something that needs be dealt with.

maybe she just thought she did this chore. i hate a liar. if that's the worst thing to happen in 5 years i'd hold on to her.

this is the only time i have actually caught her lying. I worry if this is just the tip off an iceberg , Yelling gets you nowhere so you guys are right ,i did overreact a little.

FB - yeah 5 years makes it a bit more worth it..

Kmr- I was thinking along the lines of it was a white lie that spiralled out of control.. she didn't mean for it to get to a situation were she needed to defend it...

See4 i like your style man ,I also hate lies, I never tell them.I will do as you say and use this as a get out of jail, if she cheats though there is no going back i'm afraid. I always thought there was no chance of that ,but when shes just swore on her life on a pathetic lie about cat litter ,it might not seem to far fetched.

min, i'm chilling now with a joint and i guess i did overreact, i'm sure we can work this out..

sunnib - nah man she knew it, when i pointed out the evidence she looked like she just wanted te ground to swallow her lol..

Let her know how u feel over this situation. How even a simple lie can make u question her , as a woman this alone would set me in my place.

20 years ago my wife started to lie about stupid things like that. Over 20 years now and she has forged my name on a $5000.00 check and forged my name on a title of a car. I put $6000. in our joint checking and over night it's all gone. Lie cheat fuck that shit. I'm going to see my lawyer tomorrow and a Realtor after that. I'm afraid my hate and anger right now is clouding my opinion. Ya better not listen to me.

Thanks april good to get a womens point of view ..
damn match ,i'm sorry about that man ,not good at all..

puffdatchronic said:

Thanks april good to get a womens point of view ..
damn match ,i'm sorry about that man ,not good at all..

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hey i'm a chick
so she knew she didn't do it and knew she was busted. is there some reason that she would feel like she had to lie about it? i would ask her why she couldn't just tell you the truth. the truth is much easier. is she afraid you will get really mad at her or what? i'd hate to have mrs sunny think she couldn't tell me any and everything

match box said:

20 years ago my wife started to lie about stupid things like that. Over 20 years now and she has forged my name on a $5000.00 check and forged my name on a title of a car. I put $6000. in our joint checking and over night it's all gone. Lie cheat fuck that shit. I'm going to see my lawyer tomorrow and a Realtor after that. I'm afraid my hate and anger right now is clouding my opinion. Ya better not listen to me.

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Im sorry we're not all thieving liars im honest to fault lol plus I make all my own cash. My last date ended after I paid the bill... I did ask him out so I felt it was my turn. Chin up ur life is ur choice hun

lol, cool sunnyboy ,got a little misdirected by your nme choice.. i got 2 chicks views now : )

The only reason she would need to lie about it is because she didnt want to do it, lie that she did it already therefor making it my turn .. (changing the cat litter, worst chore of the day which needs to be evenly dealt with lol)

I can only assume she let it slip without really thinking i was going to challenge it, then it snowballed and she ended up defending it with the ultimate "swear on my life" thing, just to save face.. arh, idk ,i guess i'll just have to have a talk with her tommorow when we have cooled down

The situation is irrelevant the reaction is ur only concern. Exactly like what was just said... why would she lie to u. Just ask her? Maybe something else is on her mind......

can you talk to mrs sunny about cleaning the litter box please...she refuses to clean any of them. now if the dog had to shit in the box she would clean it in an instant. she's cat prejudice

If the chore was making you a samich, then no you didn't over react at all...
Stay high
SH420

Sunny's a chick?? wow.... I felt gay for so long.

april ,i guess i'll just have to ask her tommorow, though i really can't fathom why anyone would need to tell such a pointless lie sunny lool anyway guys and girls ,nice talking to ya and you have been a very helpful bunch ,i'm off to bed.. c yas

shrxhky420 said:

If the chore was making you a samich, then no you didn't over react at all...
Stay high
SH420

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Precisely. When men yell were either Hungry Or Horny. Let her know this too. When I'm both, she know what the deal is

Nite muffin sleep well.. damn not even 7pm here lol