Gross boyfriend/girlfriend habits

BygonEra

BygonEra

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So, here I am sitting on RIU incredibly pissed off because my boyfriend is CONSTANTLY grossing me out to the point of sheer disgust... What do you do in that situation?? He smokes and has the loudest cough of anyone I've EVER heard. He coughs continuously, lord help us if he decides to hit a bong. Coughing is one thing... it's annoying, but not gross... although I always have to tell him to cover his mouth when he coughs/sneezes too. He's like a kid that isn't aware of what he's doing. But then there's the blatant nose picking (and it's not just a little... it's like he's REALLY digging in there... knowing I'm staring at him in disgust), hocking loogies (he's always snorting around.. like he's sucking everything into his sinuses or something... I can't even make the noises he does... wtf), spitting in sinks/empty bottles (which I later dump out only to gag at the blob of mucus that comes out) and just being GROSS!! He showers daily and is otherwise a clean person, and I love him, so it's a little problematic and shallow seeming of me. But he doesn't CARE that he's grossing me out... instead he gets mad. I told him not to spit in the sink a LONG time ago, yet he always does. I told him not to spit in my trashcan without a trash bag and he still does. Really I'd prefer it if he just swallowed his damn spit like a normal person.


Has anyone else dealt with this?? It's like he's so comfortable around me that there aren't any "boundaries" when it comes to gross habits... I mean geez, I want my boyfriend to be attracted to me personally... hence why I'm not picking my nose and flinging boogers at him.
 
sunni

sunni

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sounds like you got too much time together syndrome

ya know when a couple spends so much time together the little things we overlooked in the beginning (coughing, ect) when we had the butterflies ect, annoy the fucking shit out of you now. LOL
 
hempyninja309

hempyninja309

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Cut him off from sex till he drops the cigs and tell him to knock off the spitting or you will start spitting too!!!
 
UncleBuck

UncleBuck

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sometimes it gets in her hair at the end of a good session, she thinks that's pretty gross but it just happens sometimes.
 
beuffer420

beuffer420

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The spitting thing is gross as hell for sure! Better teach him some manners it sounds like. Just relatively speaking but if someone left a spit bottle in my area I would def make them clean that up, no way am I touching that.
 
Metasynth

Metasynth

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BygonEra said:
So, here I am sitting on RIU incredibly pissed off because my boyfriend is CONSTANTLY grossing me out to the point of sheer disgust... What do you do in that situation?? He smokes and has the loudest cough of anyone I've EVER heard. He coughs continuously, lord help us if he decides to hit a bong. Coughing is one thing... it's annoying, but not gross... although I always have to tell him to cover his mouth when he coughs/sneezes too. He's like a kid that isn't aware of what he's doing. But then there's the blatant nose picking (and it's not just a little... it's like he's REALLY digging in there... knowing I'm staring at him in disgust), hocking loogies (he's always snorting around.. like he's sucking everything into his sinuses or something... I can't even make the noises he does... wtf), spitting in sinks/empty bottles (which I later dump out only to gag at the blob of mucus that comes out) and just being GROSS!! He showers daily and is otherwise a clean person, and I love him, so it's a little problematic and shallow seeming of me. But he doesn't CARE that he's grossing me out... instead he gets mad. I told him not to spit in the sink a LONG time ago, yet he always does. I told him not to spit in my trashcan without a trash bag and he still does. Really I'd prefer it if he just swallowed his damn spit like a normal person.


Has anyone else dealt with this?? It's like he's so comfortable around me that there aren't any "boundaries" when it comes to gross habits... I mean geez, I want my boyfriend to be attracted to me personally... hence why I'm not picking my nose and flinging boogers at him.
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His name isn't Ryan by any chance, is it?
 
sonar

sonar

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I've never understood why some guys feel the need to constantly be hacking and spitting. On nice days at work, I don't even like to go outside and eat my lunch because there is always some disgusting mouth breather out there hacking up a lung and spitting for no apparant reason. I remember my friends and I used to having spitting contests. See who could hocker the farthest...when we were 9....

I guess I shouldn't throw stones. When we were like 18-19 my one ex and I used to take turns picking each others faces. Like squeezing out each others blackheads and popping the occassional zit. Oh the memories. Every time a pop a pimple I am reminded of the one that got away.

Oh and btw, not sure why I feel like this matters, but she was probably one of the hottest girls I ever dated. I ran into her a few months ago and she is still built like a brick shithouse and it's been almost 10 years. It was pretty sweet actually. When I told her I just moved and she said she wanted to come over and see the new place I knew it was on. Still got it. :blsmoke:
 
Padawanbater2

Padawanbater2

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That is fucking repulsive

I had an ex whose hair would fall out constantly while in the shower and she'd just leave it pasted to the shower walls because she didn't want to clog the drain... but she'd never clean it..

Leaving used cotton balls from cleaning off her nail polish fucking everywhere

Clothes every fucking where

The vanity in the bathroom was ground zero, holy shit!
 
hempyninja309

hempyninja309

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My most recent ex girlfriend was a dready chick and sometimes in the winter she would go a few weeks without shaving her legs/arm pits/and cha cha.
 
kinetic

kinetic

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move along now. Sounds like a recipe for you to be taking care of an old, broke down, loose skin old balls type of man. When he is 35 he will look 45 from smoking, his sexual stamina will be on a down ward slide and long walks will be accompanied by his oxygen tank.
 
ricky1lung

ricky1lung

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If you love him, give him a smack in the face type of realization, otherwise find someone
who is less of a pig (sorry for the terminology).

The spit in a bottle thing is beyond revolting, make him dump that sh1t in the toilet and have him
look at it. Ask him if he really wants that stuff in the house, sealed or not, let alone having you
clean it up for him.

Buy him a neti pot and some kleenex, tell him to go clear himself out.
 
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