Gross boyfriend/girlfriend habits

gfrg888

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Hmmm. I wouldn't say there's much gross things my wifey does, but annoying... Where do I start! I guess my biggest one that irritates me is when I have a giant bowl glowing red and I'm getting ready to hand it to her. She sits there not grabbing the bong, or saying anything. She just looks at me and talks. TAKE THE DAMN THING! Or at least tell me that to set it down, hold it or something. Ugh. It's dumb. Which is why I never bring it up here haha. Maybe I'm just too impatient or something. But I always feel like starting a timer just to see how long I can hold a bong in front of here before she realizes it.....
 

schuylaar

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Hmmm. I wouldn't say there's much gross things my wifey does, but annoying... Where do I start! I guess my biggest one that irritates me is when I have a giant bowl glowing red and I'm getting ready to hand it to her. She sits there not grabbing the bong, or saying anything. She just looks at me and talks. TAKE THE DAMN THING! Or at least tell me that to set it down, hold it or something. Ugh. It's dumb. Which is why I never bring it up here haha. Maybe I'm just too impatient or something. But I always feel like starting a timer just to see how long I can hold a bong in front of here before she realizes it.....
explain it to her, silly..i mean it's hot and she SHOULD take it..so say "do you want this"?
 

see4

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So, here I am sitting on RIU incredibly pissed off because my boyfriend is CONSTANTLY grossing me out to the point of sheer disgust... What do you do in that situation?? He smokes and has the loudest cough of anyone I've EVER heard. He coughs continuously, lord help us if he decides to hit a bong. Coughing is one thing... it's annoying, but not gross... although I always have to tell him to cover his mouth when he coughs/sneezes too. He's like a kid that isn't aware of what he's doing. But then there's the blatant nose picking (and it's not just a little... it's like he's REALLY digging in there... knowing I'm staring at him in disgust), hocking loogies (he's always snorting around.. like he's sucking everything into his sinuses or something... I can't even make the noises he does... wtf), spitting in sinks/empty bottles (which I later dump out only to gag at the blob of mucus that comes out) and just being GROSS!! He showers daily and is otherwise a clean person, and I love him, so it's a little problematic and shallow seeming of me. But he doesn't CARE that he's grossing me out... instead he gets mad. I told him not to spit in the sink a LONG time ago, yet he always does. I told him not to spit in my trashcan without a trash bag and he still does. Really I'd prefer it if he just swallowed his damn spit like a normal person.


Has anyone else dealt with this?? It's like he's so comfortable around me that there aren't any "boundaries" when it comes to gross habits... I mean geez, I want my boyfriend to be attracted to me personally... hence why I'm not picking my nose and flinging boogers at him.
I'm a guy and I don't do these things even when I'm alone, nevermind with a girl around.

The worst is bad table manners, chewing with your mouth open or talking with your mouth full so I can see your food. That shit pisses me off.
 

schuylaar

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So, here I am sitting on RIU incredibly pissed off because my boyfriend is CONSTANTLY grossing me out to the point of sheer disgust... What do you do in that situation?? He smokes and has the loudest cough of anyone I've EVER heard. He coughs continuously, lord help us if he decides to hit a bong. Coughing is one thing... it's annoying, but not gross... although I always have to tell him to cover his mouth when he coughs/sneezes too. He's like a kid that isn't aware of what he's doing. But then there's the blatant nose picking (and it's not just a little... it's like he's REALLY digging in there... knowing I'm staring at him in disgust), hocking loogies (he's always snorting around.. like he's sucking everything into his sinuses or something... I can't even make the noises he does... wtf), spitting in sinks/empty bottles (which I later dump out only to gag at the blob of mucus that comes out) and just being GROSS!! He showers daily and is otherwise a clean person, and I love him, so it's a little problematic and shallow seeming of me. But he doesn't CARE that he's grossing me out... instead he gets mad. I told him not to spit in the sink a LONG time ago, yet he always does. I told him not to spit in my trashcan without a trash bag and he still does. Really I'd prefer it if he just swallowed his damn spit like a normal person.


Has anyone else dealt with this?? It's like he's so comfortable around me that there aren't any "boundaries" when it comes to gross habits... I mean geez, I want my boyfriend to be attracted to me personally... hence why I'm not picking my nose and flinging boogers at him.
yeah, whoa, i'm thinking mommy didn't do a very good job..
 
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