Gf or garden

The current gf doesn't like the garden and says it has to go or she goes. Opinions please!

Do u luv her or ur garden? what are her reasons ? Did she meet u while u were growing? Dude it's such a personal choice and only u can decided what is best for U

IMO, you are growing because you love what it entails. She is your gf, not fiance or wife. If she cant accept you like to grow, well, kick rocks.

LSDreamer said:

IMO, you are growing because you love what it entails. She is your gf, not fiance or wife. If she cant accept you like to grow, well, kick rocks.

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Yep. He has a point. If she can't accept you for who you are and love the things you love then it's probably for the best that you push her out the door now.

You my friend are screwed. Keep the GF and lose the grow or kick her to the curb and she'll rat you out. Pull up your plants and dump the GF. Try another grow in like 6 months.

Paranoid but true

Been there done that.... dumped the GF was busted 2 weeks after she moved out, did she and would yours rat you out? Don't find out!!!

Well, if she is neurotic enough to make such an ultimatum...how vindictive is she? Why is she so against the garden? is it legal reasons? Jealousy? If you live in a legal state and you are within your grow quota, tell her to deal with it or make the choice...if it is jealousy it ain't gonna get better anytime soon. Sooner or later it will become a major issue and she will make the choice. The question is do you see yourself with this woman in 5 years or with some one else and a healthy garden?

Thanks, You all have great points! At first she was seemingly ok with it since I'm a caregiver and it's legit. After months of being together shes making these demands before she moves in lol. It's too bad she's honestly the best girl I've ever dated and the family loves her. it doesn't help that she has never tries it either. I'm just having trouble with the decision. I want to get input from people who understand this dilemma. Thanks

You are legal then...if she is so lacking in compassion for your patients and ignorant enough to judge without trying herself...I think you already have your answer, you just want someone else to confirm it for you.

the girl. plain and simple.

if she is telling you you CAN'T do shit allready, kick her ass to the curb. period.

I'm pretty sure the main thing is the stank. She would want to have her friends and family over and not have to worry that they will get a whiff. But when I say I can get rid of the smell completely she doesn't buy it. I have a carbon filter and all and I just can't get rid of the odor.

If that is the only issue it can be dealt with easily enough. Just do what you need to about the smell, I would hope she can believe her own nose!

What is more important to you??? You relationship with the GF or your plants.
I'm sure you can compromise.
See if she would agree to a smaller grow. Then take it from there..

I bet you wouldn't be having this sort of problems if you were growing strictly male plants, she just jealous ;D

Your plants will never judge you, leave you, or cheat on you.

You both need to make compromises. If she's not down with it at all then idk what to tell you other than push her out lol. She may be great and she may be wonderful. But you never truly know someone until they live with you. And if she's threatening the way you live before she even moves in then think about how it's gonna be when she does move in. It's her house not yours. Just saying bruh do you. Whatever you feel is necessary. It's your life my man. Don't let some female take away what makes you happy.

420God said:

Your plants will never judge you, leave you, or cheat on you.

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they will also never rat you out, make you feel like shit or threaten to leave you.

Need to get you a girl like what's on corbat420s avatar haha. I bet she would have no problem with your plants.

I think the fact that you asked the question, and where you asked it, contains the answer.

But then she might be pissed, and she'll know you are growing. Thought of that?