although it does make it a harder decision if she is as fine as you said she is,how does she look without make-up lol..
how does she look to you when you see her ugly side?
i.e her trying to control you saying its her or the garden.
next its her movie,her friends,her family's on holidays,her baby.
if you go along with it..
where are you going to be when its her decision to leave you out of the blue,for her selfish reasons?
lost of time,by this time she would have robbed you of friends,family(always be there for you but you lost time/moments with them you cant get back),MONEYx100,Meds,robbed of your passion to grow.
btw your not asking her to mary you,but rather move in together..
when you could meet an awesome girl who loves to medicate as much as you,and be happier. she could get a rec and have her own little crop next to yours etc