There's nothing wrong with florescent lights. The only thing I agree from your list of failures is, not using reflectors. It's key to have reflectors for CFLs. A 13 watt bulb(with reflector) is = to a 26 watt without a reflector. Dont buy an HID light. Buy some reflectors from home depot, plants will stay smaller this way too. Make sure you mix spectrums, 2700k and 6700k.
You still did an awesome grow. good job.