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rkm

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Does anyone know of ways to find someone that does not really want to be found? All the normal avenues have been used, it sucks when someone does not have any assets. This is one fucked up situation. If only I access to the CIAs satellites.
 

Seamaiden

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Does anyone know of ways to find someone that does not really want to be found? All the normal avenues have been used, it sucks when someone does not have any assets. This is one fucked up situation. If only I access to the CIAs satellites.
I have a sister who's pretty good at that shit. She pays for to have access to those sites that do record searches.

Do they have a drivers license? A car? Registered to vote? A phone (landline)?
 

rkm

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what do you want to find him for? You could always hire a private investigator...
Actually looking for a her. The reason is because the stupid bitch took off and no one knows where she is. This is my ex, which personally I could care less if she ever came back and my only hope is that she is safe. But my kids want to know where their mother is.
 

NewGrowth

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Call american express or blockbuster, those guys can find anybody. I'm pretty sure blockbuster is still calling Osama about not returning Harold and Kumar . . .
 

rkm

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Thanks all for comments and suggestions. I tried the sites you all provided but no luck. She has only been gone since Labor day so it may take more time and whats worse is that she has no assets. I thought about hiring a PI but honestly I dont think I will waste my money on her. It just sucks for the kids.
 

Seamaiden

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Thanks all for comments and suggestions. I tried the sites you all provided but no luck. She has only been gone since Labor day so it may take more time and whats worse is that she has no assets. I thought about hiring a PI but honestly I dont think I will waste my money on her. It just sucks for the kids.
Do you think she's been arrested by some slim chance? Can I ask how old the kids are?
 

Stoney McFried

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Maybe the kids are better off then.Sometimes,people just can't pretend anymore.She probably didn't like motherhood.Let her go.
 

rkm

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Do you think she's been arrested by some slim chance? Can I ask how old the kids are?
I have checked and did not find anything. As far as I know she does not have a warrant as of now, but there will be one issued in January if she does not show up for a child support hearing. The kids are 16 and 14.
 

rkm

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Not trying to be mean, man.Just offering an opinion.lots of folks think of running away from it all.Those that can actually bring themselves to do it should probably be allowed to go free.
You are spot on. I did not consider it mean at all, actually its the truth. She is a gold digger. She does not want to work. She wants somebody to take care of her, and latches on to the first man that even appears like he will take care of her. Ever since we divorced back in 98 she has lived with her mother, now she is a 38 year old adult that lives at home getting a free ride. She is a perfect example of lazy, she is everything I despise about our society. You are also correct about being better off, she has been a negative influence. I only wish she did this 10-15 years ago. Her doing stupid things has never surprised me, but I did not see this coming. Cant blame it on drugs either as far as I know.
 

MrFishy

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Perhaps if you shared more info here, one of us might stumble upon her?
I mean, X000 PC's can do a lot more than one?
 

rkm

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Perhaps if you shared more info here, one of us might stumble upon her?
I mean, X000 PC's can do a lot more than one?
I dont know what I could provide. In all honesty, you know as much as I do about her whereabouts. Basically all I want to know from her is her intentions. Is she planning on returning? Is she leaving for good? Thats about all I want to know, other than the issue of her returning and pretending like nothing happened or coming back with some sob story to stay for a few months only to do it again. I wont let her treat the kids that way every time she meets some new guy.
 

Seamaiden

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I get the feeling this is a pattern. And so, I'm a little surprised that they're not a bit sick of this by now and have not written her off. But, we don't know all the intricacies of their relationship with their mom, and she is still, after all, their mom, so I understand that they can't just shut off caring about her or loving her.

Still, what she's doing to them is downright cruel. Yeah, they're not "little" kids, but still.
 
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