Redoctober
Well-Known Member
Oh dear. I never intended to start any arguments. If I may try to quell some of the discomfort and mollify our tempers....The problem with flame threads is that generally people stop reading them even if there is good info contained therein. I do believe Kingrow1 that you are trying to help and your advice may be accurate; there is a fine line between being benevolently forthcoming with knowledge/opinions, and seeming pedantic and obtrusive. I am not ascribing this to your comment, I just think that it may be possible that it was perceived that way. We are all victims of the written word here, and RIU's pages are teeming as they are with knowledge are woefully devoid of the radiant nuance infused and inherent in spoken language. We lack the benefit of aural contact, all of the subtle inflection, tone, timber and cadence. We are also fighting through language barriers as people are congregating here from all over the world. We in America take it for granted that everything on this board happens to be in English, but rest assured, I realize that English is not most people's primary language, and I cannot begrudge anyone for attempting to communicate across such lines. If I had to write all my threads in Latin, which is the only language I studied in school, you'd all probably think all of my posts were actually being written by a ferret.
I've read lordgin's posts and gotten advice from him in the past and I can vouch for him. He does not seek trouble, quite the contrary. In fact I think that part of this may have all started because he felt that I was under attack. This is a tight knit community; I may not have as high a post count as others, but I have been on this board long enough to know that people here value each others opinions more than most other places, and when they feel that someone is coming under fire, will rush to their defense. Sure there are some flame threads here, it's unavoidable, but you should see some of the other forums (no offense to any other forums that are reading this, which is probably none). I am not a hippie but I do like peace. Everyone has a different style and different methods when it comes to growing. That's what makes it so much fun, and such a captivating pastime. Socrates said the only true knowledge consists in knowing that you know nothing. Ok that's actually from Bill & Ted but it's true. Even the most veteran growers would claim that they don't know it all and that they are always learning. Anyone who claims otherwise is simply revealing their own ignorance. People also have different degrees of sensitivity, some are very thick skinned, and some aren't. This is the nature of our personalities. Neither is right or wrong. I think everyone here wants to feel when they come to a forum for advice that they are being helped and guided rather than scolded or chided because they were doing something wrong and should know better. When people feel that they are having opinions thrust upon them in an unwarranted or intrusive way, it's bound to ruffle some feathers. I think I will stop writing because now I am the one who is being pedagogical, but I am making an attempt at what I think may help us all overcome whatever it is that is obstructing us from reaching our objectives, solving our problems and ultimately becoming better growers. I assure you, the peerless education one can potentially receive from this board and others is as exceptional and incomparable as one could hope for, and that is something the vast majority of us greatly desire.
In rereading this, it may seem that through my careless use of pronouns, that I was directing all of this at Kingrow; let me say that this is not the case. I thank you for your pm of the links, and yes Al is a legendary grower, though I must admit that he does have some pretty strong opinions and can be stubborn. This is understandable considering his success, and he is a true master of his craft and we can all learn from him.
Now if you'll excuse me, I need to go adjust my pH now because over the course of writing this, I'm sure it's drifted several million points....
I've read lordgin's posts and gotten advice from him in the past and I can vouch for him. He does not seek trouble, quite the contrary. In fact I think that part of this may have all started because he felt that I was under attack. This is a tight knit community; I may not have as high a post count as others, but I have been on this board long enough to know that people here value each others opinions more than most other places, and when they feel that someone is coming under fire, will rush to their defense. Sure there are some flame threads here, it's unavoidable, but you should see some of the other forums (no offense to any other forums that are reading this, which is probably none). I am not a hippie but I do like peace. Everyone has a different style and different methods when it comes to growing. That's what makes it so much fun, and such a captivating pastime. Socrates said the only true knowledge consists in knowing that you know nothing. Ok that's actually from Bill & Ted but it's true. Even the most veteran growers would claim that they don't know it all and that they are always learning. Anyone who claims otherwise is simply revealing their own ignorance. People also have different degrees of sensitivity, some are very thick skinned, and some aren't. This is the nature of our personalities. Neither is right or wrong. I think everyone here wants to feel when they come to a forum for advice that they are being helped and guided rather than scolded or chided because they were doing something wrong and should know better. When people feel that they are having opinions thrust upon them in an unwarranted or intrusive way, it's bound to ruffle some feathers. I think I will stop writing because now I am the one who is being pedagogical, but I am making an attempt at what I think may help us all overcome whatever it is that is obstructing us from reaching our objectives, solving our problems and ultimately becoming better growers. I assure you, the peerless education one can potentially receive from this board and others is as exceptional and incomparable as one could hope for, and that is something the vast majority of us greatly desire.
In rereading this, it may seem that through my careless use of pronouns, that I was directing all of this at Kingrow; let me say that this is not the case. I thank you for your pm of the links, and yes Al is a legendary grower, though I must admit that he does have some pretty strong opinions and can be stubborn. This is understandable considering his success, and he is a true master of his craft and we can all learn from him.
Now if you'll excuse me, I need to go adjust my pH now because over the course of writing this, I'm sure it's drifted several million points....