Cut the big fan leaves off because they don't have potency are taste bad.
From there on- you can vape the lot. I normally give the bud leaves (not the big fan leaves, but the little leaves that grow out of the bud) a bit of a hair cut. The amount I trim has to do with how much resin cover those leaves have. On average I guess I cut them in half. I don't actually grind up the bud before vaping it in my volcano digital. All i do is pick buds apart by their little stems into smaller balls. I don't make a effort to remove stem. While picking buds into smaller ones, the main stem of it will usually get stripped then chucked but the smaller tips of stem attached to little buds just go in the vape. It's not being burnt so doesn't taste bad or get in the way. Same goes for seeds if you have them- they are are not noticeable in the vape... and actually I like to eat seeds that have been baked like that so it's like a treat after smoking lol.
If you were smoking, these little bits of stem, bud leaf and seed would be harsh and taste bad- but vape it's no problem at all.