Another sad story

Aeroknow

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I just found out earlier today that my ex has had a boyfriend for the past at least four months.

So we've been separated for about a year now. We technically never broke up. We were together for 12 years. The first six years were amazing, and then it kind of slowly went downhill from there, and the last few years were complete hell. I blame a lot of it on myself. I didn't try hard enough to keep the flame going. Our sex life had diminished. And yet we both remained faithful to one another. I figured it was just a matter time before we went our separate ways. And then it finally happened. She moved back to Texas, I stayed here in New Mexico, and I guess we thought that With enough time separated, things will eventually work themselves out.

When she first left, the following weeks felt as if I had gotten out of prison. I felt as if I was free. No more yelling, arguing, and fighting. I lack the words to describe how bad things had gotten. After a few months I felt I was better off. And after even a few more months I thought to myself I can't imagine ever getting back with her.

So about a year has gone by now, and I have just been going about on my merry way. Then I find out today she's had a boyfriend For the past 4 to 6 months. and honestly I feel pretty fucking hurt. I guess I always thought in the back of my mind that there was still a small chance that we might be able to work things out, but the whole time I was leaning way towards not getting back together just because things seem so peaceful now. But with that being said, right now I'm extremely upset.

The way I found out is kind of fucked up. Well first of all, My dad just left the other day for a visit from Texas. I sent him back with a lot of weed and wax. He hasn't had to pay for weed in a few years, that makes me feel good. Half of it was for him and half of it was for her. So my dad called me this afternoon and said that she just picked it up and she's on her way home and that she supposed to call me when she gets home. So after that I was bored and got on Facebook and decided to look at her profile cause it's been a long time, and I keep seeing this one guy kind of popping up more and more. One of her old "guy" friends from her early teenage years. So I visit his page, and I see loads of pictures of him and her here in New Mexico just a couple months ago in a Hot Spring both naked… And then just lots of other post that go on and on clearly indicating they've been a couple for quite some time. He even says in one of his posts you need to come see your boyfriend.

So I confront her about it. It was hard as hell just getting her on the phone. She kept dodging my calls, but anyway when she finally answered I first said I'm glad to hear that you made it back home and everything is OK. Then I just flat out told her I looked on Facebook earlier, and it looks like you've been seeing another guy for quite some time. And she said yes and it was real quiet and weird and then she started acting weird and saying stereo typical things like I didn't want to happen this way or I didn't mean to hurt you, but kind of in a bitchy way were Its almost like she was trying to get me to get pissed off when I was handling my composure. I asked if she was happy and if she is in love with him and she said yes to both. And I just tried to keep it as pleasant as possible and said I hope you're happy and have a good life pretty much.

During this post I just texted her, "Sorry this is a lot right now, but how can you say you don't want to hurt me in anyway and yet have pictures of you naked posted on Facebook with some other dude. Seems kind of fucked up lol.. Just sayin.."

Idk, i guess I'm just venting again…
Seems pretty clear that we're definitely over now. Idk why I feel so hurt when I already knew we were more than likely better off Seperating. Now I'm just kinda at a loss for words.
You don't have kids with this chick right?

Fuckin move on already dude, life is way too short.
 

chchhazed

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I just read this thread , and have figured it out , the OP is a hermie.... Has the body of a male but the emotions of a female , is there a nana hangin out ya ring piece Will Farrel? Sorry but holy shit, ya sound like a love sick 13 year old girl mate , she's gone , more than likely because you are to feminine for her .
 

Will Ferrell

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I just read this thread , and have figured it out , the OP is a hermie.... Has the body of a male but the emotions of a female , is there a nana hangin out ya ring piece Will Farrel? Sorry but holy shit, ya sound like a love sick 13 year old girl mate , she's gone , more than likely because you are to feminine for her .
Ya I think ur right too. I've got a huge nana hangin out my ring piece, I think. I think I'm slowly realizing I need to cut all ties completely.
thanks for reading btw
 
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r.i.kid

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I've been told I have a unicorn penis I'm happy to report. 6 and 3 quarters. Yes it's pretty perfect I think. But who knows. I don't think she left me cause of that.. I was joking with her when i spoke to her briefly early and said in Peter Griffins voice " is he bigger than me", that was followed by a long awkward silence...
yeah he's WAY bigger then you if she didn't answer.....and not for nothing 6" is small....I think she needed bigger dick....if she was as loose as a trash bag would you say faithful ....or would you find some tight pussy....well that's equivalent to what she did, found bigger dick
 

tyler.durden

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Ok that makes more sense. That actually sounds pretty accurate.

It's a scary world out there for me. I've suffered from extreme anxiety for the past few years. Every time my dog barks my anxiety goes crazy. I don't feel comfortable away from the house. I don't know where to go. I've forgotten what it's like to just simply socialize normally in a casual setting. So clubs and bars are outta the question, I've never really cared for that scene anyway. I know a lot of people I sell to want to be friends with me, but I keep them at a distance for safety reasons, which keeps things pretty awkward. Idk, I do feel like the longer I'm single I feel more and more normal. But it's been a year and I'm still pretty fucked up in the head I think. I guess I've been in a stooper for so long, seems like all I ever do is complain. Sorry for that.

 

Will Ferrell

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yeah he's WAY bigger then you if she didn't answer.....and not for nothing 6" is small....I think she needed bigger dick....if she was as loose as a trash bag would you say faithful ....or would you find some tight pussy....well that's equivalent to what she did, found bigger dick
Yeah well, I didn't want to play this card, but the dude is Asian, I'm not worried about that. U probably have a small penis, no offense.
 

Alienwidow

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Ferrell ya gotta get that chick outta your head man. Its been a year, she moved on, you should too. Start hitting the gym, going out more, and find some new tail. Shit relationships stay shitty. Even if you would have gotten back together with her, the same shit would have kept going on. Find someone new and dont make the same mistakes again.
 

Chunky Stool

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yeah he's WAY bigger then you if she didn't answer.....and not for nothing 6" is small....I think she needed bigger dick....if she was as loose as a trash bag would you say faithful ....or would you find some tight pussy....well that's equivalent to what she did, found bigger dick
What's up with the penis obsession? Someday you'll find out what it is like to be in a relationship that is more than just physical.
You can only fuck for so long.
Eventually you have to talk to each other.
 

curious2garden

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Pack rats. My dog brought this inside for me a couple months ago I'm assuming was a gift.View attachment 3835898
There we go proof your dog doesn't eat rats.
Ok that makes more sense. That actually sounds pretty accurate. Reward him a high value treat and much affection and he'll hunt rats for you (and not eat them).

It's a scary world out there for me. I've suffered from extreme anxiety for the past few years. Every time my dog barks my anxiety goes crazy. I don't feel comfortable away from the house. I don't know where to go. I've forgotten what it's like to just simply socialize normally in a casual setting. So clubs and bars are outta the question, I've never really cared for that scene anyway. I know a lot of people I sell to want to be friends with me, but I keep them at a distance for safety reasons, which keeps things pretty awkward. Idk, I do feel like the longer I'm single I feel more and more normal. But it's been a year and I'm still pretty fucked up in the head I think. I guess I've been in a stooper for so long, seems like all I ever do is complain. Sorry for that.
Complaining does get you feedback. I'm serious, look up cognitive behavioral therapy. It's not the old form of talk therapy that went on indefinitely you set goals then work on attaining them. They work with the eliciting stimulus and help you break the pattern of learned helplessness. Essentially you are in a negative feedback loop you need to break it.
 

curious2garden

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Remind me never to post anything personal
Actually at the first posting of this Will was given lots of good advice which he ignored. Here we are well over a year later and he's discussing the same (very fixable), issue. Sometimes the only way to move forward is a little bit of negative reinforcement for standing in place.

Then there's also the TnT effect which one just has to remember exists LOL
 
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