life turned upside down...in one day

lahadaextranjera

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I don't blame you. My ex wasn't at all supportive. He certainly wasn't impressed by the people I used to party with amongst the industry. He had little vision as to what was happening right under his nose. Leaving him and being free of manipulation and control was the best thing I ever did.
 

Mr.Vega

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What was the fight about?
This paticular fite was abt her boys bein lazy disrestectful punks..I'm the only person in their life that tries to teach em any kinda dicipline...respocibility...basically teaching them how to grow up and b a man...and I'm the bad guy for it...always...it was a battle I could nvr win cause their real dad..and their mom allows them to be lazy punks...well someone has to teach em how to grow up else how they gonna take care of themselves when the time comes...cause ill be damned if when they're 20-21 they're stil laying around my house I work my ass off to pay for doin nothing...they better learn how to b men...well that was my angle anyway...she showed me who's house it really was I guess...I'm gone and she's there ..and they are too...ha...oh well not my prob anymore n glad of it...
 

Mr.Vega

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I don't blame you. My ex wasn't at all supportive. He certainly wasn't impressed by the people I used to party with amongst the industry. He had little vision as to what was happening right under his nose. Leaving him and being free of manipulation and control was the best thing I ever did.
Sounds like things worked out for u...that's good
 

Perfextionist420

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I don't blame you. My ex wasn't at all supportive. He certainly wasn't impressed by the people I used to party with amongst the industry. He had little vision as to what was happening right under his nose. Leaving him and being free of manipulation and control was the best thing I ever did.
fuck manipulative controlling assholes, you're a person not an object he can own
 

Claypipe

Active Member
Good choice man dont let her take you over, kick da bitch to the curb hahahahaha, not all wemem tho, find a new stoner chick man!
 

Chronic Masterbator

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This paticular fite was abt her boys bein lazy disrestectful punks..I'm the only person in their life that tries to teach em any kinda dicipline...respocibility...basically teaching them how to grow up and b a man...and I'm the bad guy for it...always...it was a battle I could nvr win cause their real dad..and their mom allows them to be lazy punks...well someone has to teach em how to grow up else how they gonna take care of themselves when the time comes...cause ill be damned if when they're 20-21 they're stil laying around my house I work my ass off to pay for doin nothing...they better learn how to b men...well that was my angle anyway...she showed me who's house it really was I guess...I'm gone and she's there ..and they are too...ha...oh well not my prob anymore n glad of it...
Its fucked up that's why I avoided women that have kids. They will put the kids before you. Even if the kid is a convicted criminal or some warlord that commits genocide. Every relationship I've had with a women that has kids went wrong. I cant complain though i got to hump the crap out of each and every one. :hump::hump:Only time its gonna work is when the kiddos have left the nest.
 

MyPetSkunk

Active Member
weird but im kinda experiencing same shit here with my GF! they don't fucking stand to see u grow ur shit and have some fun they will never understand!! i'm moving now... my choice, i PAY THE BILLS and we clearly gonna see who's gonna loose! she have the lease on her name, a 1600$ rent! dont know how will she handle that with a 2000$ salary! anyways not my problem... Plus i already found an apartment, signed the lease and moving next month AND she doen't have an idea about it!!! she's gonna find out bout this as im parking the u-hall truck in the driveway ;) this will avoid me lots of sabotage as i know her... i'm chopping in 28th and moving on the first! wish u good luck buddy with this!

I don't see how this could backfire at all.

:finger::shock::cry::idea::fire::arrow::leaf:(smiley with the cops called on him)


Edit: If you are legal, disregard.
 

ClaytonBigsby

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Wow, not sure how I missed this thread. Vega, I am so happy that you are at peace with your decision. A fresh start; your way! I say good for you, and I wish you all the best.
 

ClaytonBigsby

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am i the only one who seems to think OP is a douche?
Apparently. They were ships passing in the night anyway. She had three kids of her own. Seems nobody appreciated him. Sometime you have to say enough is enough. If they were not married would you think he was a douche?

I do wonder, if the 80 hour weeks continue, what will happen to the dog....
 

UncleBuck

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Apparently. They were ships passing in the night anyway. She had three kids of her own. Seems nobody appreciated him. Sometime you have to say enough is enough. If they were not married would you think he was a douche?

I do wonder, if the 80 hour weeks continue, what will happen to the dog....
i don't know, wanting to grow weed seems like something you might break up with a short term GF for, not a wife though.

that's just me. i thought at least one other person would see it that way, i waited, no one did, so i piped up.

oh well.
 

UncleBuck

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probably, he's seems like a good guy, but I haven't been here long. I'm guessing you're a major troll here? And your comment should have read : It seems like I am the only one that thinks the OP is a douche.
my syntax was fine, i'm not here to troll. just registering my opinion.
 

BarnBuster

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Sorry about the drama you had, Vega. It's never any fun regardless of where the fault lies. Sounds like you're on the right track and the situation hasn't fucked you up too bad. Good luck with everything!!
 

ClaytonBigsby

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i don't know, wanting to grow weed seems like something you might break up with a short term GF for, not a wife though.

that's just me. i thought at least one other person would see it that way, i waited, no one did, so i piped up.

oh well.

I know what you mean. I'm married for life too. But, clearly, it's not for everyone. I think the divorce rate is like 60%. If you said to me, you have a 60% chance of your flight not making it to your final destination, I wouldn't get on board. You gotta KNOW it's right.
 

Stillbuzzin

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This paticular fite was abt her boys bein lazy disrestectful punks..I'm the only person in their life that tries to teach em any kinda dicipline...respocibility...basically teaching them how to grow up and b a man...and I'm the bad guy for it...always...it was a battle I could nvr win cause their real dad..and their mom allows them to be lazy punks...well someone has to teach em how to grow up else how they gonna take care of themselves when the time comes...cause ill be damned if when they're 20-21 they're stil laying around my house I work my ass off to pay for doin nothing...they better learn how to b men...well that was my angle anyway...she showed me who's house it really was I guess...I'm gone and she's there ..and they are too...ha...oh well not my prob anymore n glad of it...

This would have never worked for you , You would have always been the bad guy. Count your blessings and hit the road.
 
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