How To Become A Moderator

[Chiceh]

Lacy, you go girl. Now that we are paying members, can't we do this? I am sure the guys on here do not want to hear about our periods, husband rants, women issues etc. We need to discuss it, not them. I think it is a great idea Lacy.

The request honestly wasn't meant to be an insult to any of you guys out there.
We just communicate differently and sometimes we need to 'stitch and bitch' or 'chill' before we post seriously in the rest of the forum.

Its just one little forum. Out of all the different sections they have here, what's the big deal?

Nobody's upset at anyone that i know of and it wasn't meant to open a can of worms either.

We LOVE you guys. You should KNOW that BY NOW!!!!

 

[Lacy]

Not all of use instant messenger and as far as th pm's, then you can get anyone pm you.

Also the thing with this is, how do we know who is female ande who is male? Its not like we can wear a sign saying 'looking for fellower female growers alike to shoot the sh*t wif?"

Thats sounds insane for one, and two you'd be getting all kinds of guys pm'ing you pretending to be chicks.

And since this is a growing forum and it is the 'net' thats intimidating for many of us females.

If there was a female grow room to even introduce ourselves as female growers, at least evntually we can distinquish the males from the females.

Yes perhaps it is asking for something special but after all....


we are special

or so you guys are always telling us.

u can always meet ur fellow female growers and give them an instant messenger address and talk to them direct. Plus u got pms on here.

 

[Lacy]

Yes exactly. I was going ther next chiceh.

Lacy, you go girl. Now that we are paying members, can't we do this? I am sure the guys on here do not want to hear about our periods, husband rants, women issues etc. We need to discuss it, not them. I think it is a great idea Lacy.

 

[Lacy]

I don't look at it as sexiest at all but I understand where you are coming from as far as the work situation.
My husband often comes home complaining about whenever a problem comes up the women always manage to escape by either crying or running to the bathroom, trying to make the 'men, man' look like an idiot.

Yes totally unfair I agree. It does go both ways.

i can't speak for anyone else here but i certainly don't feel like anyone is trying to rape me. That's absurd. We are all comfy in our homes, I would think.

But if I am pms'ing it would be nice to 'wake and bake' or chill in a room with others who understand 'cause sometimes we don't even. understand ourselves then.

I honestly think it is just that we communicate differently.

I'll give you a prime example.

I have been married to my man for 18 years now. Very happily i must add.

If i have something i want to talk to him about and it isn't something he can solve, he gets frustrated because he THINKS I am bitching about it for him to fix. I'm not trying to get him to fix any of my problems, i just wnat to 'talk.' Just talk.

Now seriously you guys!!! Does this not sound familiar to you??? Throw a bit of pms in there and it turns into an argument.

Chicch will know what i am talking about. \
Its not an insult to you guys. honest!
quote=fdd2blk;488439]i filed a sexual harassment complaint against a FEMALE co-worker while working at hewlett-packard years ago. she kept telling me about her period and stuff. she got in a lot of trouble. i was asked if i would like to file a lawsuit and pursue it. i said NO.


i have had numerous discussions on this forum with fellow MALE parents. it's usually the dads with teenage sons who they catch smoking pot. so, yes, many of us would love to discuss parenting.

not ALL men want to rape you. i'm fully satisfied at home. seems like this whole idea is because some women have bitterness towards men. sounds a little sexist. just a little. [/quote]

 

[Lacy]

Nahhh Chiceh. You would be perfect for a female grow room mod.

Come on! We luv you!!!

LMAO me? oh please. I get PMS WAY too bad.

You know...I think it is getting worse because of the age thing. I'm in my early forties and I think its that pre -menopausal thing.

Whatcha think Chiceh???

I vote for Lacy to be a mod, lol.

 

[bongspit]

I think a womans forum would be nice...

 

[dankforall]

I think lacy should be a mod.

 

[Lacy]

Yeah.
Thats 'cause Bong is thinking of all the perks that could come of this.

Most of the grow chick found in one room. Not that we will be there all the time be it is a nice place to meet.

Thanks for your support bong and glad it doesn't challenge your manhood.(opps)

I think a womans forum would be nice...

 

[Lacy]

.....OMG ..........noooooo ...
funny thought though.

thanks all the same dank.

I think lacy should be a mod.

 

[bongspit]

Yeah.
Thats 'cause Bong is thinking of all the perks that could come of this.

Most of the grow chick found in one room. Not that we will be there all the time be it is a nice place to meet.

Thanks for your support bong and glad it doesn't challenge your manlihood.

that's funny...I live with my 80 year old mother and my 17 year old daughter... and thats challenging enough...my manhood is intact...
I read where someone said this website is 90% male...I think it's probably more like 95%...
us guys can get pretty obnoxious sometimes...so come on rollitup let the ladies have their forum...if it doesn't work out...if they get out of control shut them down...

 

[Chiceh]

I hear ya Lacy, men are great! But they always want to fix stuff. Sometimes we just need them to hear us and not try to fix it. They just don't understand some women issues. That is where it would be great to converse with the gals. So we don't feel alone in this big sea of men, lol. It is not an equality thing at all. We don't see us as better than you, just different is all.

I don't look at it as sexiest at all but I understand where you are coming from as far as the work situation.
My husband often comes home complaining about whenever a problem comes up the women always manage to escape by either crying or running to the bathroom, trying to make the 'men, man' look like an idiot.

Yes totally unfair I agree. It does go both ways.

i can't speak for anyone else here but i certainly don't feel like anyone is trying to rape me. That's absurd. We are all comfy in our homes, I would think.

But if I am pms'ing it would be nice to 'wake and bake' or chill in a room with others who understand 'cause sometimes we don't even. understand ourselves then.

I honestly think it is just that we communicate differently.

I'll give you a prime example.

I have been married to my man for 18 years now. Very happily i must add.

If i have something i want to talk to him about and it isn't something he can solve, he gets frustrated because he THINKS I am bitching about it for him to fix. I'm not trying to get him to fix any of my problems, i just wnat to 'talk.' Just talk.

Now seriously you guys!!! Does this not sound familiar to you??? Throw a bit of pms in there and it turns into an argument.

Chicch will know what i am talking about. \
Its not an insult to you guys. honest!
quote=fdd2blk;488439]i filed a sexual harassment complaint against a FEMALE co-worker while working at hewlett-packard years ago. she kept telling me about her period and stuff. she got in a lot of trouble. i was asked if i would like to file a lawsuit and pursue it. i said NO.


i have had numerous discussions on this forum with fellow MALE parents. it's usually the dads with teenage sons who they catch smoking pot. so, yes, many of us would love to discuss parenting.

not ALL men want to rape you. i'm fully satisfied at home. seems like this whole idea is because some women have bitterness towards men. sounds a little sexist. just a little.

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[Lacy]

Oh Chiceh. I love ya gurl Exactly!!!!
That's exactly right. we just communicat differently is all.
Gosh i love my man more than anything or anyone in this world but the few big arguments that we do have, have been due to the very fact that we communicate differently. Just because I may want to talk about a problem doesn't mean i am looking for him to fix it and we communicate very well. I gave this example just to show you what I meant.
Woman just wanna talk, not have you guys fix something.

When i first came to this site I was extremely intimidated because of the topic(weed) and because there are so many men here. Its not that we are on the defense at all its just that you guys cannot see our viewpoint as woman because you aren't one. How can you see our viewpoint?
Just think. I am here telling you all of this BUT how many woman out there have felt this way but just left instead?
We'd get more ladies here I think and what so bad about that.

I hear ya Lacy, men are great! But they always want to fix stuff. Sometimes we just need them to hear us and not try to fix it. They just don't understand some women issues. That is where it would be great to converse with the gals. So we don't feel alone in this big sea of men, lol. It is not an equality thing at all. We don't see us as better than you, just different is all.

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[russ0r]

WOW

YOU did know i was JOKING, right? :/ LOL

go russ0r go... look what i started

Anything i say that seems offensive at all is probobly a joke! for future reference Man i really have been away too long.

 

[Lacy]

Yep. look what ya started.

WOW

YOU did know i was JOKING, right? :/ LOL

go russ0r go... look what i started

Anything i say that seems offensive at all is probobly a joke! for future reference Man i really have been away too long.

 

[russ0r]

well SNAP ;/

i really was kidding

i need some marijuana in my diet. it's a shame i don't have an identical twin out there to take my drug tests for me.

 

[Lacy]

well snap
I'm not

Yes you need some weed
I thought everyone was stoned on this site.

well SNAP ;/

i really was kidding

i need some marijuana in my diet. it's a shame i don't have an identical twin out there to take my drug tests for me.

 

[russ0r]

well snap
I'm not

Yes you need some weed
I thought everyone was stoned on this site.

WAS ; / but not for my second comming, not all the time, anyway.

 

[Garden Knowm]

What is the purpose of pushing back against a female forum.... ?
What would cause somebody to NOT agree to trying a female forum?
What is the point in putting energy INTO STOPPING or GETTING in the way of opening a female forum...?

will terrorists being hiding in that forum?

lol

 

[GoodFriend]

What is the purpose of pushing back against a female forum.... ?
What would cause somebody to NOT agree to trying a female forum?
What is the point in putting energy INTO STOPPING or GETTING in the way of opening a female forum...?

will terrorists being hiding in that forum?

lol

because it only enforces a seperation of sexes... which i personally believe isn't right...


i have not one single problem with any female here i don't think (unless you are a female gk, haha)

but whats the difference between females and males anyways besides poons and poles?

 

[GoodFriend]

oh, and multiple orgasms...

i'm so very jealous of that one...