Sarah I think that her letting him have the phone and saying that shit to you is worse than her sleeping with him, which in my opinion, I think she did, she was just trying to play it off as a joke, NOT FUNNY Fuck her! you said yourself you have better friends. What the hell does your weight have to do with anything? I would drop this friend Like a lead balloon when she grows up maybe give her a chance but until then fuck her, Well don't actually fuck her she would probably like it too much. I think you did the right thing but I wish you would just quit reading her msgs and then she can wonder what the hell is going on. That way you have the upper hand if you are reading them and replying to them then she knows you are still her friend. Friends don't do that with friends. Letting some jerk on the phone to ridicule you? Forget that. Now I know what a real loser he must have been. When I was your age I dated men older than me and it sounds to me like your that type of girl. Maybe look around in the older men crowd. I'm not talking like pedifiles I'm talking just a little older, Guys that wouldn't bother with hurting a young girls feelings, WHO DID THE RIGHT THING!!! I know it's hard to just dump a friend so easy, but if you won't do that then at least let her know how bad this hurt and I bet you a million dollars that she will do it again! That way as long as your there and let her walk on you she will do it just to make herself feel better about herself. You did the right thing, now trust your self and get some self esteem and just drop her! No calls No msgs.