As I've spoken about over the course of this thread, I'm very much in love with this guy I live with. He's known for about 3 years. He reels me in close like he's going to ask me out them promptly dates one of my friends instead and does nothing but complain about it. I do make it clearly known when I like someone, and I have kicked his ass when he's been rude and generally acting like a dick. I keep getting strung along by guys who then say thanks but no thanks, want to be friends with benefits but them getting all the benefits or just flat out reject me. What I do not understand is why they call me at 3 am crying about how much their bitchy girlfriend is driving them nuts and they with they were like me, telling me how much they love me and don't date me. They still want me close though. T-bird, the guy I love grabbed my arm when I wanted to leave the house- I said I couldn't cope with being so close to him and being expected to do all the girlfriend shit if he didn't want me like that. He pulled me into his lap and cried with his arms around me for 45 minutes.
2 weeks later his new girlfriend moves into our bedroom... -_-
As I've come to find out, some people are just incapable of being alone. Rumor has it that Lady Gaga was so afraid of being alone that she made her assistant sleep next to her in bed. Idk why but I can kind of understand it. It's human nature to want to be accepted by the pack because exile usually meant death. But I've spent so much time alone in high school and in life in general that it's given me tremendous strength when it comes to walking away or ending relationships. I used to think these people were pathetic. That they were so weak minded that they can't stand being alone with their thoughts. Or that they're so used to being in a group and following someones lead, that when they're alone, they can't help but realize what a waste their life is.
Not so much anymore. I still think so to an extent on a person to person basis, but I don't think it's natural for someone to be as solitary as I am. It's made me defensive and socially inept not to mention ruined my self esteem. It sounds bad when I say it like that, but I lost that for the ability to stand up against the crowd without fear of being ostracized, cause I already have been. It's made me a lot stronger as a person all in all.
Anyways...lol...maybe he's one of those people that can't be alone. How much down time does he have between gf's? That's a good clue. Yeah though, you're in the dreaded 'friend zone'. Since you've made you're feelings clear, there's really nothing you can do to get out of it besides LEAVE HIM.
Ignore him. Next time he starts crying, call him a bitch and walk away. That should get his mind working. lol jk or am I??? At least tell him you're busy when he calls you bitching about his girlfriend. Oh, and mention what an asshole he is for talking about another girl when he knows how you feel about him.
He sounds like an idiot anyways. He keeps breaking up with his current gf or something and is constantly having to vent to you about stuff.
Jerk off...