If you found out your 17 year old boy was having sex.....
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I think I was 17 when I first had sex... I'm pretty sure I was anyhow... I don't see anything wrong with finally doing it as long as you're wearing protection, and it's with a girl you like. If he's banging random girls, or guys or whatever that might be a problem(condom or not). Sex with strangers isn't good- but all in all forcing someone to suppress their sexuality rarely leads to any type of positive behavior.
KushKing949
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the more sex u have the manlier you get lol
but seriously atleast the kid came out of his shell and he knows whats up.
he just needs condoms. and dont have sex with strangers haha.
but seriously atleast the kid came out of his shell and he knows whats up.
he just needs condoms. and dont have sex with strangers haha.
MissBehavin
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I would make him babysit an infant for a weekend, a cholicky too (spell check I'm sure). That will scare him into wearing a condom! You don't quite get the full effect in just one day. Cash out his weekend and let him wake up a lot during the middle of the night to crying.... and than he gets the biggest box of condoms I can find. 
Seamaiden
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I told my boys they had to hide the same way I did when I was their age. My mother actually thought I was a virgin when I was married. 
cleatis
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What would you do if you found out that your 17 year old boy was having sex?
My sister in law found out her son was having sex and she grounded him. Can you belive that? Grounded for sex.
I would have taken that opportunity to have a lengthy discussion about disease and preventative measures. When I found out she grounded him I was really stunned, how stupid.
I bet that boy has a girl pregnant before he's 20.
Grounded?! what the FUCK? Jesus, just sling a few condoms his way and find a way to show him just how much of a pain in the ass being a parent is.
smartsoverambition
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my mom doesen't even think i'm having sex, i'm 20, once when she came over 2 my apartment as a "suprise visit to cheer me up" a girl was leaving my room, i told her we we studying the human anatomy 4 finals, my mom will never know i'm having sex, ever
but when i do have a kids especially the girls i'm going to hold a double standard, i'd be a bad father not to i know how fathers who stick around get over there little girls i know it's gonna happen but i really don't want to see it or think aout it because it would make me sick, when i comes right down to it, when the"side effects" of sex come into question women get the raw end of the stick (apart from the actual sex,) so i know i'll have to sit my future kidfs down but there questions will probably make me pass out
but i know 4 the boys i'll probably sling a box of condoms, talk to him and slap hima hi 5
but when i do have a kids especially the girls i'm going to hold a double standard, i'd be a bad father not to i know how fathers who stick around get over there little girls i know it's gonna happen but i really don't want to see it or think aout it because it would make me sick, when i comes right down to it, when the"side effects" of sex come into question women get the raw end of the stick (apart from the actual sex,) so i know i'll have to sit my future kidfs down but there questions will probably make me pass out
but i know 4 the boys i'll probably sling a box of condoms, talk to him and slap hima hi 5
misshestermoffitt
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If your mom came into your apartment right after you had sex, she knows. First you are 20, duh. Second sex has a smell, that's right kids. You can't smell it if you were the one doing it, but it's there. Please stop acting like your mother is to dumb to figure it out, I bet she wouldn't appreciate that.
KushKing949
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hell yea sex has a smell mostly that sweaty ass, vagina smell i love it tho hahaha 
sweetsmell
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I have a 4yr old myself and I know when she gets that old it will be a really difficult time in my life 
misshestermoffitt
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If you can talk to your kids comfortably about sex it keeps the communication lines open for discussing everything else.
smartsoverambition
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yeh i know sex has a smell, and she prolly knows but could u atleast let me live out my denial?
misshestermoffitt
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I think it's way harder to come to terms with a daughter becoming sexually active than it is when a son does. I don't know why, it just seems more personal for a girl or something.
Sorry wasn't trying to bust your balls or anything, just pointing out that your mom most likely isn't as dumb as you'd like her to be.
I have a 4yr old myself and I know when she gets that old it will be a really difficult time in my life
Sorry wasn't trying to bust your balls or anything, just pointing out that your mom most likely isn't as dumb as you'd like her to be.
yeh i know sex has a smell, and she prolly knows but could u atleast let me live out my denial?
smartsoverambition
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yeh i know plz i just REALLY rather not think about it
but i can tell when i have a daughter it's going to be hard to tell her these things but i know i'm not going to tell her the wait until marriage crap, it never works and will prolly make her want to do it more i'd answer any questions she has but i'd rather her hide her "being sexy" or playing games with boys from me bcuz i'm still a dog right now so i can't turn around and tell them otherwise
chuckbane
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If I found my 17 y/o boy having sex....
i would educate him...
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about pulling out in time
lol.. seriously now..
they teach safe sex in highschool now, you shouldnt have anything to worry about... and if he does fuck up well that is the best way to learn a lesson,, boy and girl. You just have to hope that he makes the right decisions. and after all, you can't force him not to fuck,, it does feel good
i would educate him...
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about pulling out in time
lol.. seriously now..
they teach safe sex in highschool now, you shouldnt have anything to worry about... and if he does fuck up well that is the best way to learn a lesson,, boy and girl. You just have to hope that he makes the right decisions. and after all, you can't force him not to fuck,, it does feel good
SmokinBong83
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lmao I tell was telling my son, who's now 5, that if he kept holding his pee his peepee would fall off! Unfortunately that doesn't work. Now I just tell him that they will have to do surgery on his peepee again.
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