If you found out your 17 year old boy was having sex.....

misshestermoffitt

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What would you do if you found out that your 17 year old boy was having sex?

My sister in law found out her son was having sex and she grounded him. Can you belive that? Grounded for sex.

I would have taken that opportunity to have a lengthy discussion about disease and preventative measures. When I found out she grounded him I was really stunned, how stupid. :wall:


I bet that boy has a girl pregnant before he's 20.
 

NewGrowth

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What would you do if you found out that your 17 year old boy was having sex?

My sister in law found out her son was having sex and she grounded him. Can you belive that? Grounded for sex.

I would have taken that opportunity to have a lengthy discussion about disease and preventative measures. When I found out she grounded him I was really stunned, how stupid. :wall:


I bet that boy has a girl pregnant before he's 20.
I agree with you bro you can't stop him from having sex but you can give him condoms and a good talk.
 

sarah22

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hes 17...its perfectly normal...but i would definitely sit him down...talk about it...and then hand the kid some condoms and make sure he knows how to use them...grounding a 17 yr old for having sex is pretty silly...and useless...lol
 

tipsgnob

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I was a 17 year old boy once and I had 17 year old son about 3 years ago...if he has already had sex, you can't unring that bell...
just tell him you love him and support his decisions...and give him a handful of condoms...
 

fdd2blk

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"sorry babe, i can't come over tonight and sex you up. i'm grounded." lololol poor kid. i'd buy him condoms at least.
 

wackymack

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i was humpin at 17 and my parents knew it bc i was honest and that i was safe except once,bad mistake,i didnt recieve a kid but got a std once,crabs bite,and had a sti from same girl
 

jumifera

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i would go to costco and buy him a box full of condos.
and tell him if he doesnt use the condoms his pipi will fall off!
 

Stoney McFried

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I'd give him condoms, but he'd still be in trouble.For not coming to me,and telling me what was up.I have girls.I don't want them having sex.Ever.I waited until I was 18, ideally, I hope they do too.However,if they can't they better let me know so I can get them protection, because I'll be damned if I'm raising a grandchild.
 

misshestermoffitt

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I took my son to the store and bought him condoms after the first time I saw him walking with his arm around a girl. We also had a lengthy talk about disease, pregnancy and prevention. I liked to talk to him about sex in the car. 70 MPH on the interstate and he can't walk away from me. Get 'em trapped and let the conversation roll.

I think some of it sunk in. He's 23 now and has no kids or STD's to date.

I couldn't believe she grounded him for sex. OMG, I wonder what she'll do if she catches him with a Playboy or something?
 

makinthemagic

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as long as he is having sex with a female i would buy him the biggest supply of condoms i could find and tell him good job
 

Seamaiden

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What would you do if you found out that your 17 year old boy was having sex?

My sister in law found out her son was having sex and she grounded him. Can you belive that? Grounded for sex.

I would have taken that opportunity to have a lengthy discussion about disease and preventative measures. When I found out she grounded him I was really stunned, how stupid. :wall:


I bet that boy has a girl pregnant before he's 20.
Maybe I'm weird (ok, no "maybe" about it), but I EXPECTED my boys to be having sex by age 17. I made sure they knew certain things from an early age, and continued their education as they grew. We STILL talk about sex, though differently than when they were younger. I made sure that, while in high school, they had plenty of condoms on hand because I didn't want them makin' babies just yet.
 
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