Friend Help

tje22

Well-Known Member
He guys I'm having problems with this guy who i thought was my good friend. Weve been friends for what seems like ever, but recently hes just been pissing me off. About 5 years ago after a short brake from growing I decided to pick it up again, he gave me 4 or 5 good bagseeds for my grow. To repay him I gave him almost half of my harvest.(about 4 jars worth)

Now recently he picked up some chemdogg and snowdogg clones, since he had no idea what he was doing and didnt have the equipment he needed, I decided to help him out. I gave him 2 400w mh bulbs, flowering nutes, and all the help he needed(even helped him trim). He didnt even give me a bowl! (I had been out for a few weeks) Also everytime he finds me a bag he charges me extra!( Ive never done that to him)

I guess i just need some outside perspective, Am I right to be upset, or am i being greedy?

Thanks for the help!!
Tje22
 
karma will catch him soon enough. I gifted many plants to some who needed them and ask nothing in return and expect nothing. One person in a dozen was kind enough to gift back to me and also gifted forward to someone else.
 

justlearning73

Well-Known Member
I believe in treating people as I would have them treat me. Looks like you tried to be cool and he just fucked you. If i were you I would be getting back my gear and telling him to fuck off.
 

Shmulster

Active Member
dude i know exactly how you feel but it happens alot with drug buddies... when it happened with mine i just disconnected completley from him because he just didnt seem like a good person to me anymore... im actually quite happy i did (last time we met he "scored" some horrible schwag for me and he acted like it was a favour when later i figured he probably got it for one price and asked me for more). if you feel like this my advice is the same to you man. he will come around if hes an actual friend and apologize...
 

tje22

Well-Known Member
karma will catch him soon enough. I gifted many plants to some who needed them and ask nothing in return and expect nothing. One person in a dozen was kind enough to gift back to me and also gifted forward to someone else.
Ya, its not like i expected anything back, it just woulda been nice ya know
 

tje22

Well-Known Member
plus rep to every one, I dont feel so bad now. I was startin too feel like i was bein greedy
 

thedoc08

New Member
In your situation you should say something to him. You gave him half your harvest for some seeds that would have otherwise been thrown out by him. You gave him what he needed to grow his shit that he otherwise would not have been able to grow. He gave you nothing. Your "friend" is a scummy scumbag. Better yet, show him this thread.
 

tje22

Well-Known Member
Ya I just dont feel like fighting with him (hes that type) I'm more of a fight only when necessary kind of guy
I prefer to chill and have a good time.
 

StonedPony

Well-Known Member
Get your equipment back and just write him off........dont fight just ignore and hang with your other friends.......you not being greedy by anymeans
 

cowasaki

Active Member
Ya I just dont feel like fighting with him (hes that type) I'm more of a fight only when necessary kind of guy
I prefer to chill and have a good time.
POTHEAD..lol i feel ya bro no need for a fight, u not helpin him anymore will be more satisfying...way to not let him get to u like that
+ rep for a cool head
 

tje22

Well-Known Member
Get your equipment back and just write him off........dont fight just ignore and hang with your other friends.......you not being greedy by anymeans
Lol thanks, I wish i could but about a week after all of this he called to make sure i "gave" him the bulbs because he had already givin them away!
 
Top