Did I do the wrong thing? Worried sick

wayno30

New Member
im a guy so i dont blow cocks.......that would be gay.......but i do enjoy being blown...... its just i dont understand i would think dude would be calling texting knocking on the door.........maybe dude dont like girls just needed urca to help him understand
 

Hepheastus420

Well-Known Member
I was gonna read from the first page to catch up on the thread, but all the bitching and complaining has prevented me from my initial goal.... So what's going on?
 

Tales

Active Member
You got played... dont hate the player hate the game... if you are having sex with a FWB, dont lose sight of core relationship (ie FWB)...

If you do sleep with him again... you will only be prolonging the inevitable...

My best guess is, he enjoyed you while he did, and then he was bored and moved on....

If you allow him to, most likely he will re-enter your life when he gets lonely... maybe not, but that is the cycle of "the game"

I feel like I wasted half an hour of my life....
 

wayno30

New Member
You got played... dont hate the player hate the game... if you are having sex with a FWB, dont lose sight of core relationship (ie FWB)...

If you do sleep with him again... you will only be prolonging the inevitable...

My best guess is, he enjoyed you while he did, and then he was bored and moved on....

If you allow him to, most likely he will re-enter your life when he gets lonely... maybe not, but that is the cycle of "the game"

I feel like I wasted half an hour of my life....


u did.........................
 

Matt Rize

Hashmaster
You sound experienced. Does your offer of fellatio ever patch up a broken relationship?
I have mos def done some muff diving to repair a relationship. lmao.... ah highschool. It was a much more simple time when problems seemed so grand but were truly insignificant.

Urca: forget about this guy, he isn't even your boyfriend. All you can do is move forward with positivity. Dwelling on your cuddle buddy won't help you out any. Guys play, thats how it goes. We are really good at convincing women we care when really we are just boosting our egos and trying to nut. Its all about the ego, you will learn this as you learn more about men.
 
Ahh honesty at its finest! Well said :)

I have mos def done some muff diving to repair a relationship. lmao.... ah highschool. It was a much more simple time when problems seemed so grand but were truly insignificant.

Urca: forget about this guy, he isn't even your boyfriend. All you can do is move forward with positivity. Dwelling on your cuddle buddy won't help you out any. Guys play, thats how it goes. We are really good at convincing women we care when really we are just boosting our egos and trying to nut. Its all about the ego, you will learn this as you learn more about men.
 

Finshaggy

Well-Known Member
I was gonna read from the first page to catch up on the thread, but all the bitching and complaining has prevented me from my initial goal.... So what's going on?
There is an obvious solution, and Urca even already kinda decided it for herself before even asking us. But she doesn't like it...And wants to undo the good decision :(
 

Nusky

New Member
Urca, stick to your guns. One thing about being a women, is that they don't exactly act like they want sex. You can hold sex over a guy to get what you want. You were being used, you gave it up too easily and now he just wants another pretty face. He might still come around when he realizes its hard to find someone else, but do you really want him back after that? I would tell him to go fuck off.

tl;dr you gave it up too easy, learn from this, next time try to find a sweet spot and ease into sex. Get to know the guy, flirt with him for a month or two, then when you're going out deny him sex few times, it creates mystery and it makes him want you even more. But like I said, you have to find the sweet spot without making him want to give up on you.
 
No Matt. If keeping it real can go wrong..I don't wanna be right..

Bwaha. Just seemed like a appropriate quote ya dig bongsmilie
Thanks. Its what I do. Sometimes keeping it real can go wrong...
[video=youtube;TVXqJ3A6NWw]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVXqJ3A6NWw[/video]
 

Mr.Brown

Member
The things I read while trying to kill time at work.. lol

Not much to be said except that clip of chappelle is priceless, and Soupy is a cutie. I've heard similar stories from plenty of women (and some men.. let's not front guys lol) that I've known in real life. Quit offering advise for most of them some time ago, because they already know what's up and will probably put themselves out there like that again with that person or another. People always think, "Things will change. I just need to give it another chance." It just feels better to talk about what's stressing you.
 
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