A question of trust.
- Thread starter CuriousSoul
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barrgemike
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Attics arn't very safe places for plants, lots of mold, bugs and shit spiders, no one likes spiders
Exactly.
joshranwest
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Thank you!I can understand that , Good luck to her ..
CuriousSoul
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I hope if I ever get married that I find someone who understands the need to have a private room as a sanctuary.
joshranwest
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HAHAHA I lucked out I tell ya! She rocks!
You fibbed.... I know that you grow but even as much as you trust me (100%) I still do not want to know where because I do not need to know.(and I don't want to know)
On this note, I would not let her know. If you are not sure if you can trust her... you are not at that point of your relationship. Hide them well or harvest early. Better to be safe than sorry.
Rope Smoker
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Thats good advice, take it! Harvest early!!
#1 If shes not cool with it she wont have anything to tell any body
And you still get to smoke it.
#2 Shes not cool with it and tells somebody and you get busted, and don't get to smoke it!
Play it safe till your shure how shes going to react!
potpimp
Sector 5 Moderator
Even if she was cool with it, that still violates rule #1: don't tell ANYBODY about your grow. She could tell just one person and it would all be over. If it were me and it was in a closet, I would try and figure out some way to keep them there and not sacrifice the major bud growth by an early harvest. Put on the thinking cap man!!
Jeffdogg
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Easy man, when it comes to girlies keep in mind one thing. The longer it took you bang her, the more you can trust her 
Think about it for a bit it'll make sence 
Edit: If shes a girlie you got off the internet, dont trust her period............
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Think about it for a bit it'll make sence Edit: If shes a girlie you got off the internet, dont trust her period............
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K1Ng5p4d3
Junior Creatologist
shes your girl man, and if ive learned anything from bein married, its that secrets dont do nothin but cause trouble. Now, on the other hand, you COULD bend the truth a little bit. Tell her your doing a one time grow with a friends equipment, and your growing plants for him because he needs the dope for medical reasons, and hes paying you copious amounts of money for taking the risk and growing out his dope for him. Lay some big ass sob story on her about how hes dying (or whatever else may play on her heart strings), and While she might not be happy with it at first, shell succumb to you being a generous person with a big enough heart to take such a big risk to grow a few ganja plants for a dying man, lol. Just dont go over the top with the story - make it believable. Shes only stayin for a little bit, so whos to say what happens with the nuggets once she leaves, dig??
If she loves you dude, shell understand. You just gotta put it to her in a way that shell feel sorry for the situation your in, and be proud of you that your doing something to help someone else. (No offense ladies) Chicks love hearing that sort of thing about their man
good luck with your situation man. Dont risk harvesting early and ruining your crop. Do what you gotta do to get her approval. Shes only your girlfriend, not your fiancee or wife. If she Refuses to understand the situation your in, then i dont know what to tell ya man. You should be finding a chick thats down for you no matter what your in to man. Thats what being together is all about - accepting each other for their odd habits and flaws, and still loving each other for it no matter what.
hope she takes it well bro-
-K1.
*edit* -- n even if she DOES talk, like you said yourself, youll only be 10 days away from harvest, plus your not gonna be doing any further grows on the property your currently in. Once your in your new pad, set shit up however you want to, and make it more stealthy so NOBODY knows about it. By the time word gets around about this grow (should she talk), youll already have your shit bagged up n hidden away (or sold, depending on what your doin with your dope). You can work it out man.
If she loves you dude, shell understand. You just gotta put it to her in a way that shell feel sorry for the situation your in, and be proud of you that your doing something to help someone else. (No offense ladies) Chicks love hearing that sort of thing about their man
good luck with your situation man. Dont risk harvesting early and ruining your crop. Do what you gotta do to get her approval. Shes only your girlfriend, not your fiancee or wife. If she Refuses to understand the situation your in, then i dont know what to tell ya man. You should be finding a chick thats down for you no matter what your in to man. Thats what being together is all about - accepting each other for their odd habits and flaws, and still loving each other for it no matter what.
hope she takes it well bro-
-K1.
*edit* -- n even if she DOES talk, like you said yourself, youll only be 10 days away from harvest, plus your not gonna be doing any further grows on the property your currently in. Once your in your new pad, set shit up however you want to, and make it more stealthy so NOBODY knows about it. By the time word gets around about this grow (should she talk), youll already have your shit bagged up n hidden away (or sold, depending on what your doin with your dope). You can work it out man.
joshranwest
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HAHA
CuriousSoul
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Cousin's best friend. I would just like to get that straight. Well it is still early days yet so I'd rather not bring it up. That is not really lying as such, just none of her business. I must admit I quite like the idea of a Bunbury (if anyone is a Wilde fan) but no need to elucidate or explain questions that aren't asked.
"All relationships end in lies and deception; so it seems like a logical place to start."
"All relationships end in lies and deception; so it seems like a logical place to start."
Jeffdogg
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At first you said your partner, not shes your cousins girl? If you want an honest answer you must give honest details. If its your cousins best friend then hell no. I always thought the thing was to tell the least amount of people as possible. If she staying there just block that area off, close the door and put "restricted" or something lol
CuriousSoul
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I've decided to put them outside for a couple of days in the green house. Since it will be Dec, the weather will be miserable so I can see no reason for her to go out there. Even if she does, it isn't visible from the patio.
Sorry Jeffdog if I didn't make myself clear. She's my new partner, girlfriend, whatever you want to call it but, has been my cousins best friend for some years. It is more this obvious connection to the family that makes me very wary about letting her in on my secret.
Sorry Jeffdog if I didn't make myself clear. She's my new partner, girlfriend, whatever you want to call it but, has been my cousins best friend for some years. It is more this obvious connection to the family that makes me very wary about letting her in on my secret.
BackDoorMan
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fuck it.. just tell her whats goin on and hope for the best.. you shouldnt be with her if you're having to keep shit from her anyway