I understand what you mean dude. I had done some research and I'm mostly only asking what I can't find online. like when I asked about the white fur, people online was saying they ain't sure what it is, some where saying it's mold and some was saying that it could spider mites. when I search for white hair instead, it talks about the white hair on the female plant. these are all via other forums asked by other people as well as here and a lot don't have pictures nor it looks like the white fur on my plant. so I do search around via google before asking questions. that's how I found this site.