If it's between a site like AFN or Icmag or whatever garbage it is and you can't fart without deleted posts and bans or here where it's the wild west and you can say what is on your mind(bar racism, sexist and religious harassment) than I'd rather it here. People need to grow up. It's the internet. If swear words hurt your feelings you have a long hard road ahead. There are always clowns here and there in RIU, but even than they are not even super douchy. But to disallow even telling someone else to shut up and get an internet spanking is crazy on the other sites.