What women like about a good man?

Bag Lady

Bag Lady

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Thank you, I appreciate your condolences, it has been a few years now and no one lives forever.

What I posted wasn't meant to be all encompassing, nothing ever is. But, it works for a general guideline, just like the list is a general guideline. Some people escape the cycle and it is usually because of the love and patience of a good mate. But, someone who is abusive and is use to being abusive by say 25 years of age may have a hard time.

I want to share with you an experience I had when I was about 20, a young I was dating took me to his house for dinner. His father smacked his mom in front of us, not a love tap, an out and out smack. The next day this young man hit me, I turned and walked away and called home for help. He called, he begged, he sent flowers, I didn't respond, it was over (thank you, dad). Years later I heard that he did time for putting his wife into the hospital. So... it is not all encompassing, but it is good advice, for some people.

BTW, what do you mean 'pitty a false statement' I confused on your meaning?





Hydro Hippy said:
Uhm this might apply to some.. Sorry for your loss, but im not going to pitty a false statement. Alot of kids have cracked out mom's they are taking care of.. its not like they are going to treat their wife like a crackhead later on.. Your theory doesn't work
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Bag Lady

Bag Lady

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I was that way with my mom too. She even taught me to drive, dad would have made me too nervous. I bet your wife is a very lucky woman.

tip top toker said:
I don't know what you think i'm saying :D I'm just an entirely different person around my mother. You will find me sat down talking about politics, ethics, religion, cannabis, you name it, for over 5 hours at times, anyone else, and good morning is around the most anyone will get. Quite possible that i'm just an exception though, people seem to think of me as a trifle mad for some reason or other :D
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tip top toker

tip top toker

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Bag Lady said:
I was that way with my mom too. She even taught me to drive, dad would have made me too nervous. I bet your wife is a very lucky woman.
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I should be so lucky haha, i have people issues, i tend to choose a life of solitude. I remember learning to drive with my father, "Hey, do i have to indicate when overtaking this cyclist?" "Ummmm"
 
Bag Lady

Bag Lady

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Blazin256 - I apologize, I did not mean to insult anyone. I was trying to impart some sage advice to someone who has issues. Once again I apologize, I haven't been posting here for quite sometime, I've just been lurking. I think it is better to lurk. BL

blazin256 said:
i wish some people could give advice without insulting others. someone should make that a rule....
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d.s.m.

d.s.m.

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WoddaWodda said:
There is no god and there is no peace. Have you ever seen peace on this earth? Have you ever seen god on this earth? Both are as real as pamela anderson's boobs.
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I've experienced peace, and I have this feeling that there might be something more.

You ever wear your sister's pants or cut your arms?
 
kasuhit

kasuhit

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that whole list is pretty much null, like someone else said women don't want a fairy, although they will lie, to appear less shallow.

its realy

1. Large Penecasis
2. Large Penacasis
3. appearance of having a large Penacises

4. looks, healthy body / confidence
5. woulda put confidence here, but it kinda goes hand in hand with looks and body
6. MONEY, MONEY MONEY <------ this right here can make up for any and all short comings, might as well be tied for 1st with large Penacees

thats it have either 1 or more of the following and your in the zone, thats all ther is to it, enjoy!
 
d.s.m.

d.s.m.

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thewinghunter said:
Here's the other list:

That he gets up in the morning and goes to work and doesn't complain about it.

MEN DONT COMPLAIN LIKE WOMEN... IF HE DOES HES A FAG.

When the snow is deep he still takes the dog for a walk.

YER MAN MUST BE LAZY... BUT LETS THINK, IS IT HIS DOG? IF NOT DO IT YERSELF. LAZY!

He isn't 'adjusting' himself all the time.

YES I AGREE GHETTO, BUT THEN AGAIN YOU PICKED HIM

He appreciates an inside joke.

I GUESS HED HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT JOKE, NOW, WOULDNT HE... THIS DOESNT MAKE SENSE

He will change the channel between innings during a ball game.

WOW WHAT COMPROMISING FELLA

Sometimes he'll go to the mall without being asked.

HEY, THERE'S SOME NICE TEEN ASS THERE

He cries when a friend is hurt or a pet dies.

I HOPE SO!

Lies about how we look, even when we both know we're not at our best.

WHO IS WE? BOTH OF YOU? THAT'S STUPID GET INTO A GYM!

Brings coffee refills.

DROP THE COFFEE AND GET INTO THE GYM LAZY.

Likes good home cooked meals.

NO MAN DOESN'T LIKE FREE FOOD

Picks up after the dog.

HE LEAVES HIS TOYS AROUND?

Puts up with cats.

AWW I LIKE KITTENS BETTER ANYWAY

Comes home right after work.

OI... LET HIM HAVE SOME RELAXATION. LAST THING HE NEEDS IS TO COME HOME TO YOU AND HEAR HE HAS TO PLOW SNOW, WALK THE DOG AND PUT UP WITH THE CAT BETTER

Isn't afraid to vacuum.

WHAT DOES HE GET FOR IT? HAVE U BEEN SITTING HOME ALL DAY MAKING CRUMBS?

Loves his family and extended family.

OF COURSE.

His best friend is important to him.

GUYS HAVE A CERTAIN POINT THEY TRUST ANY OTHER GUY EVEN BEST FRIENDS

Able to trust anything he says.

LORD.

Good in bed.

I AM.

If not well endowed, makes up for it.

DUMP HIM IF HES NOT, HE'LL FIND SOMEONE YOUNGER AND HAPPIER WHO JUST DOESNT COMPLAIN AS MUCH AS YOU

Doesn't talk about intimate details.

BUT GIRLS DOING IT IS FINE... ACTUALLY GUYS DONT USUALLY GO INTO DETAILS.

Will put up with going to art fairs, auctions, etc.

I AGREE HE SHULD NOT BE A DUMBASS

Doesn't mind if a woman makes more money, this one can play havoc with a mans ego.

FUCK THAT, PAY THE BILLS. I LIKE IT.

Willing to kill spiders.

EH. ITS GETTING OLD.

Occasionally will go to the supermarket.

I GO EVERYDAY. MEN GO ALL THE TIME. WE JUST GO FOR OURSELVES.

Likes our friends, but doesn't find them 'attractive', if you know what I mean.

NO I DONT.

Likes to snuggle afterwards.

SNUGGLE ALL DAY WHO CARES.

Doesn't mind showing us how things work.

IF YOU COULD ONLY GRASP IT? WHAT DONT YOU UNDERSTAND? ARE YOU MENTALLY OK?

Opens doors, that is sooo cool.

AGREED. WHY NOT.

Knows how to introduce people to each other.

HE PROLLY DOENST REMEMBER ANYONES NAME. WE HAVE LIMITED BRAIN FUNCTION

Doesn't really swear in public.

HMMMM FUCK THAT. NAH JUST KIDDING AGREED.

Loves his mom and treats her well.

OK. I DO.

Donates to local families that need help.

ILL DONATE SPERM?!

Makes sure our car is running right.

RIGHT ON. AGREED. BUT HAVE OUR FOOD ON TABLE AND VACCUM LAZY WOMAN!

Takes the car to the shop for us so we won't be taken advantage of.

OF COURSE.

Carries in the heavy groceries.

DUH.

Bends down to talk to small children.

WELL... I DONT THINK IN THIS DAY AND AGE IT WOULD LOOK GOOD BUT OK.

Rescues animals in trouble.

YES! THATS A LIL RIDICULOUS THO, IM ALREAYD PUTTING UP WITH THE CAT, NOW I GOTTA SAVE ONE IN A TREE?

Finds beauty in wildlife.

WHO DOESNT

Holding hands and putting his arms across our shoulders.

SURE.

Proud to say your his.

HONESLTY, IT DEPENDS ON HOW ANNOYING YOU WERE THAT DAY

Holds the umbrella over both of us when it rains.

CMON

Eat leftovers and says it's better on the second day.

3RDS ARE GOOD TOO.. WE JUST DONT CARE... AND IF U DIDNT MAKE FOOD WE'D GET IT SOMWHERE SERVED BY A CUTE GIRL... NOT IMPORTANT
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You come up with all of that by yourself? Good job, that's funny stuff. Just kidding.
 
d.s.m.

d.s.m.

Well-Known Member
kasuhit said:
that whole list is pretty much null, like someone else said women don't want a fairy, although they will lie, to appear less shallow.

its realy

1. Large Penecasis
2. Large Penacasis
3. appearance of having a large Penacises

4. looks, healthy body / confidence
5. woulda put confidence here, but it kinda goes hand in hand with looks and body
6. MONEY, MONEY MONEY <------ this right here can make up for any and all short comings, might as well be tied for 1st with large Penacees

thats it have either 1 or more of the following and your in the zone, thats all ther is to it, enjoy!
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Sorry about that small penecasis, man. I'm sure you make up for it in other ways.
 
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Denofearth69

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Hydro Hippy said:
Why does this have so many replies lmao. Some of those you stated are reasonable, other's are completely ludicrous and come with many factors in ones life.. It's more complicated then how your trying to make it sound. Kinda seems like your ranting about what you wish your bf would be or something like that.
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I know the simple logic I am about to impart will be lost on those to wrapped up in their denial of God to recognize basically good advise, but this whole thread can be boiled down to the simple adage, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Now, yes, personal experience can create some very warped world views. My lady works in juvenile corrections, and is exposed daily to things like young women who, from as young as 8 years old, have been prostituted to provide for their parent's drug habit, but claim to come from loving and stable family environments. In these cases we obviously don't want them doing unto others without a butt load of counseling to adjust their world view. What I feel Wodda Wodda, and guys who think like he does are missing is that TRUE love means setting aside such ridiculous and antiquated notions regarding beauty and that women's organs can get used up. We all get old, all of our bodies degrade, and thus it is inevitable that we all will be with people who have physical imperfections at some time in our lives, if we intend to experience true love. Now, if you hang with pimps and hos, than it is equally inevitable that you will be with women that are truly used up, regardless of their age, level of education, or number of children. Shit I know young women that have had more partners in 20 years ( one in particular has had more just last year alone ) than I have had in 48. This is not because I couldn't have been out there slutting around, but rather that I have never had any desire to be with women that all my bros and their bros and the bros beyond have already been with, just because they are hot. If you don't want used up, age is not the consideration, but rather the personal habits of the woman you are considering.
 
ganja girl

ganja girl

New Member
Very well said, kudos to you

Denofearth69 said:
I know the simple logic I am about to impart will be lost on those to wrapped up in their denial of God to recognize basically good advise, but this whole thread can be boiled down to the simple adage, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Now, yes, personal experience can create some very warped world views. My lady works in juvenile corrections, and is exposed daily to things like young women who, from as young as 8 years old, have been prostituted to provide for their parent's drug habit, but claim to come from loving and stable family environments. In these cases we obviously don't want them doing unto others without a butt load of counseling to adjust their world view. What I feel Wodda Wodda, and guys who think like he does are missing is that TRUE love means setting aside such ridiculous and antiquated notions regarding beauty and that women's organs can get used up. We all get old, all of our bodies degrade, and thus it is inevitable that we all will be with people who have physical imperfections at some time in our lives, if we intend to experience true love. Now, if you hang with pimps and hos, than it is equally inevitable that you will be with women that are truly used up, regardless of their age, level of education, or number of children. Shit I know young women that have had more partners in 20 years ( one in particular has had more just last year alone ) than I have had in 48. This is not because I couldn't have been out there slutting around, but rather that I have never had any desire to be with women that all my bros and their bros and the bros beyond have already been with, just because they are hot. If you don't want used up, age is not the consideration, but rather the personal habits of the woman you are considering.
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Denofearth69

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Here ya go WoddaWodda. Perhaps this may illuminate what love is REALLY about.
love (l
v)n.1. A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
2. A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.
3. a. Sexual passion.
b. Sexual intercourse.
c. A love affair.

4. An intense emotional attachment, as for a pet or treasured object.
5. A person who is the object of deep or intense affection or attraction; beloved. Often used as a term of endearment.
6. An expression of one's affection: Send him my love.
7. a. A strong predilection or enthusiasm: a love of language.
b. The object of such an enthusiasm: The outdoors is her greatest love.

8. Love Mythology Eros or Cupid.
9. often Love Christianity Charity.
10. Sports A zero score in tennis.

v. loved, lov·ing, loves
v.tr.1. To have a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward (a person): We love our parents. I love my friends.
2. To have a feeling of intense desire and attraction toward (a person).
3. To have an intense emotional attachment to: loves his house.
4. a. To embrace or caress.
b. To have sexual intercourse with.

5. To like or desire enthusiastically: loves swimming.
6. Theology To have charity for.
7. To thrive on; need: The cactus loves hot, dry air.

v.intr. To experience deep affection or intense desire for another.

Idioms: for love Out of compassion; with no thought for a reward: She volunteers at the hospital for love.

for love or money Under any circumstances. Usually used in negative sentences: I would not do that for love or money.

for the love of For the sake of; in consideration for: did it all for the love of praise.

in love1. Deeply or passionately enamored: a young couple in love.
2. Highly or immoderately fond: in love with Japanese painting; in love with the sound of her own voice.

no love lost No affection; animosity: There's no love lost between them.

[Middle English, from Old English lufu; see leubh- in Indo-European roots.]
Synonyms: love, affection, devotion, fondness, infatuation
These nouns denote feelings of warm personal attachment or strong attraction to another person. Love is the most intense: marrying for love.
Affection is a less ardent and more unvarying feeling of tender regard: parental affection.
Devotion is earnest, affectionate dedication and implies selflessness: teachers admired for their devotion to children.
Fondness is strong liking or affection: a fondness for small animals.
Infatuation is foolish or extravagant attraction, often of short duration: lovers blinded to their differences by their mutual infatuation.
 
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