the "ultimate" high for me would be one like columbian gold... very trippy and sensory heightening. it would make movies & music feel more visceral or even make TV look 3D like gold did for me on my very FIRST buzz. it wouldn't be too racy to sit still on though like kali mist, but more than ANYTHING, i just can't stand couchlock. i like an energy neutral buzz with euphoria and motivation. the REALLY cool part of columbian gold's trippy buzz was the light floaty feelings it induced like you're always walking downhill or even that your feet were helium balloons ready to float out from under you and take you with them. i bet a nickel that's where the term getting high comes from. you really do feel like you're walking on clouds. oh... and the sensory effects also extended to junk food which could taste orgasmic. i used to love chowing down on original saltier nacho cheese combos & sprite when i blazed.
trippy buzzes aren't the best for 24/7 though. you don't want to be having a paranoid meltdown in public or around cops now do ya? LOL for everyday blazing a nice mellow but euphoric buzz with a fairly clear head is nice. i loved the precise body control effect i got off 8 miles high and it's warm & fuzzy playful euphoria, but total energy neutrality. i liked the more potent and psychoactive buzz of haze skunk more, but it can get edgy and like many potent sativas, can bite you and give you the room spinning dizzies if you overdo them where a nice mellow buzz is better for ANY situation.
touchy feely buzzes are cool too. i loved that about onyx. it was weird... i couldn't stop playing footsie with myself as i typed on it. it had plenty of euphoria too. not a fan of anti-treehugger diesel flavors, but that's the kind of buzz i'd want a date to have
racy buzzes have their place too. i'm something of a procrastinator, so a "can't sit still" racy clearheaded euphoric buzz like kali mist or even C99 is great for getting stuff you hate doing done and even enjoying it because of the buzz. that's too specific a buzz for ever trying to chill out on, but good for work & vigorous activities.
laugh your ass off euphoric strains are great for social situations where every stupid thing becomes hysterical. i liked that about some of the better gold buzzes i'd had like when i ran into a coworker at a street party after i'd blazed and burst out laughing (after a brief paranoid flash) when she asked "you're high, aren't you?" (or was it stoned? i was definitely high though)
i like a variety of buzzes. i just can't stand couchlock making it impossible to function or spaciness making me stupid or forgetful. the whole point of getting high, for me, is to make EVERYTHING funner. melting into the furniture makes me depressed and try and fight the buzz wanting it to get me high. i listen to tunes, and it does NOTHING to make them more interesting. i try and jerk off to some T&A, and it doesn't heighten my senses and that's only IF the buzz doesn't make me so tired and indifferent i end up doing nothing.
any of the "positive" traits in a buzz that aren't impairing are great if only for specific situations. kali mist would make great date weed too. if you get your date happy as a clam and bursting with energy... it's chowder time!