What gender is this ?????

I think I see balls!!! is it a dude !!!??

no that is very much female, you're seeing calyxes, not balls

It's a girl

full blown beautiful girl

lol yea man wut he said^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ all u see is hairs

hairs=girl
balls=guy

oh yea dude, agreed that is definitely a FEMALE.. all those hairs are the pistils, males wont have any of those and instead it would like tiny grapes hanging down.. you are Good TO GO!

cool thank you very much, its so hard to get a reply on this, I was just given her I have sooooo many Questions !!!! I have a four foot flouresent and one 250watt incondesant and ocilating ventalation, what are nutes ? I am only watering with distilled water on a 12 and 12 schedule, can anyone please help!!!

incandescents wont do. go with some cfls the flouro you have sounds good enough what color temp is it. 2700k is recommended for flowering. add some 6500k as well just a lower amount compared to the 2700k. use a ratio of 3:1 2700k : 6500k.

Nutes are fetilizers go with som stuff from home depot, schultz, all i know is it stay away from miracle grow. I use fox farm but i bought these from a local hydo store.

pass the cigar, you got yerself a girl

Thank you normajean , I will get proper lighting , so the incondesant is worthless ?, should i put side lighting up ? Is the fertalizer needed ? can I harm her with too much ?

start with 1/4 recommended dosage and work your way up you can prolly start at about 1/2 strenght seeing as your plant is pretty big but to be safe go with 1/4 the recommended dosage to prevent Nutrient Burn. Yes the incodescent light is worthless. Side lighting is a plus will help you get a lot of undergrowth. go with some bulbs on the side. Technically ferts arent needed unless a defiency sets in. its up to you. but once a defiency sets in you should hit her up with something to counteract it.

Thank you again for all your help

I just looked at pics of your set up !!! I have a LOT to learn, I think she can be saved and yield a good harvest, I just have to give her tlc, (so I can get some THC!!!) when I got her she was so beat up, the person was already cutting buds ! thats why she is so bushy ! I tied down a couple limbs so the middle could grow.
I like your idea of the power strip with flouresents I am going to get the things i need tomorrow, why are the top lights shaded with soda cans , or is that to intensify rays ?

https://www.rollitup.org/general-marijuana-growing/280193-she-dying-please-help.html this is the shorcut to pics, please help if you can.