Weed in your relationship

How does your significant other and smoking get along? Is your partner into it or not (or more or less than you) and how does that affect your enjoyment or your relationship? If you aren't in a relationship or married now, tell about a past experience.

I had a boyfriend Tim who drank a ton but didn't smoke and wasn't interested in it. He made me feel like a pariah and it sucked. He ended up breaking up with me because I don't like to drink a lot and it made him uncomfortable- haha! Go figure. Other guys I've dated have either been fine with it or been serious heads, which is so much better. Never again Timtypes!

It does make such a difference. I don't smoke constantly, but I do it recreationally- to have fun and get a different perspective. There's times I smoke daily, and times more sparsly, but I now have a minnimum bar for guys that they have to be ok with it, of course, better if they partake too!

my girlfriend packs my bowls for when i come home...now thats love. when you are stuck in a shitty place with very little to do...you tend to smoke alot

My wife smoked when we started dating and even got me a nice glass bong for Christmas. She decided to stop smoking about a year ago but doesnt care if i do. She drinks wine on the weekends and will still smoke once in a while when she gets the urge. She is totally cool with my grow and is wanting to go back to Jamaica this winter for vacation and she will definitally smoke then.

I personally don't like to see dependence on anything....

I like variety for my self and my mate.. I like to be with people that inspire me..

I do not tolerate people trying to change me... I am evolving.. I will always evolve..
I like to be inspired and introduced to new things... i don;t even mind somebody suggestion I have a PROBLEM.... but to change me because "you want me to change" is total bullshit... I must move through my issues and my phases of life...

iloveyou

ChaoticMetal said:

I hear ya on this one, my ex was nuts with it. If she was in the mood to smoke, then it was ok for me, if she took a break, i got shit for token a bowl a day.

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INSANITY!!!!!


totally embarrassing... if i projected my issues onto somebody luke that, I would be sooooooo embarrassed....

it can be really difficult to be around people like that... i feel for you...

I travel a lot... and somebody asked one of my mates "how do you DEAL with all his travel"

lol - what a ridiculous question!!!!!!! Why would anybody need to deal with MY travel?

Another person asked one of my mates "how do you deal with all the fun he has?"

These types of presuppositions in questioning.. and this type of SELF IDENTITY within a relationship with another human being ...is complete insanity....

iloveyou

my girl is definately down with smokin, she acually pretty much quite drinkin all together (without any influence from me btw) because I don't drink, only smoke (I HATE drinking). but she is not nearly into smokin as much as I am. We were about even until I discovered the joys of growing your own, now she sometimes tells me I'm too into it, but I know she wont ever leave me for it. she's into me for me, not because I'm a stoner. We teach each other new shit almost every day, and we been together over 3 years now.

Not very fond of it but tolerant.. I managed to break the usual anti-marijuana propaganda bullshit and tell her the truth. Now it's kind of like she's ok with it since I told her how it can help and stuff and still kind of hesitant because of the legal side of it.

Conoclast said:

Not very fond of it but tolerant.. I managed to break the usual anti-marijuana propaganda bullshit and tell her the truth. Now it's kind of like she's ok with it since I told her how it can help and stuff and still kind of hesitant because of the legal side of it.

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thats good..... way to break down the barrior! even one person at a time helps

Some people are looking for a mate to complete them instead of compliment them. It's important to have things in common, but also things different to learn from each other and enjoy your own life. As my momma always taught me, never depend on a man to support you or validate you- always do your own thing but have their respect. And it's true. And I'll never be with another guy who doesn't respect my choices.

This society is so biased towards drinking and against smoking (obviously not us, just people in general, the government, etc.) and it's so ridiculous- drinking too much kills at the worst and at best makes you act like a moron and forget your morals or vomit.
Pot makes people happier, more relaxed and more conservative about things like driving a car- nobody becomes aggressive or anything like that. UHHHH- so frustrating, but that's a topic for another forum and I'm preachin to the choir.

My girl is ok wit me tokin'. I smoke anywhere from 3 bowls to 3 bowls and a bong or 2 a day. There was one moment where she was like "I think you need to cut back on weed, thats all you do." so i told her that this is something i do and not like it then u have a choice to leave at any moment. everything is cool though. Have a grow room setup and actually next harvest i am changing the setup for it and she is helping lol.

My girl likes it, we both kind of got into it at the same time and she took to it well since it fits with her world view. She is all into eastern philosophy, has a degree in it plus she used to teach yoga. On our monthly house hold budget there is a line item for weed, although we actually rarely spend all the money allocated for that.

My wife hates it, but I love it, she wants me to quit, she found my stash one year and haul ass on me, got back together though, and still smoking trees, hell one night last year she asked if I was still smoking, and I told her yeah I smoke still, and so dose everyone in your in family your dads and bro are my main smoke spots, so get over it.

She dose not ask about it anymore

It was crazy I hid it for a year and I was like the resident ganja connoisseur so her bro would bring me what ppl had told him was good green before a major purchase and I taste tested.

I'm not really in a relationship well it's complicated but lets just say I've been with him for a year and a half well we both smoke a lot and its definitely nice to just lie in bed together, smoke a joint and watch a movie but sometimes it gets in the way. When he gets high sometimes he just likes to sit and play guitar while I get really horny

I don't think I could be in a relationship with someone who didn't smoke weed or wasn't at least cool with me smoking weed.

me and my long term bf.... lol
are growing and both are on riu.
its cool. it calms us both down wen we fight... but we do the gardening together and its a good way to spend time together.

My boyfriend and i, back when we had our own place(tiny ass 1 bedroom), smoked alot of weed. We lived upstairs from a dealer, who was like our personal weed-salesman. everytime he got something good, he was at our door. "you guys need some fresh bud?" all the time. he kept us stocked for sure.
We invested alot of money into our pipe collection...

abigale-steamroller
cameo-glass spoon
phill-1 1/2 ft bong
tank- 5ft bong
alton- metal pipe
the whore- bubbler
tiki- wooden pipe
shroomy- glass pipe

all but Tank got stolen when we moved out. someone, in our building we think, went snooping for leftover goods and we hadnt moved the pieces yet, so they were taken. asshole.
but anywho, me and my BF had night jobs. and on the nights we didnt work, we'd lay around in our underwear, blaze and watch adult swim all night. it was magical *sigh* I loved when he hit the 5 footer and gave me a shot-gun. It was so sexy. he had great lungs XD

the loss of our collection saddened me so much i had to fill the void. so ive been building a new collection. consist of 5 now, some named, some still evolving. XD

I'll tell you one thing about having a partner who smokes weed as much as u do (if ur a stoner). it can be great, or it can be bad because yeh, sure u have someone to smoke with all the time, but... you might get caught up in having that as what u do together, and not much else. which is cool for some people, but some couples really loose track of each other.

and watch the sex-life!!! weed can throw a wet blanket on a good sex-life, pretty easily. XD

Sadly enough I have not had a girlfriend that was a toker. Some day I dream of having one, lol. Smoking/growing mary can and many times does a person's outlook on many things, and it can make a relationship awkward if one person does not have that same outlook.