The plant that wouldnt die...my ghetto grow

I read somewhere that the slower the grow the more the females you get. Lower heat and the neglect may have helped her be female because she needs to make seeds to pass on her legacy.

You are right. Big lights and all that fancy stuff is for growers that are growing for volume and urgent needs. Slow is the way to go and you can do it cheaply. Some of the nicest healthiest plants in the posts on many sites were plants that were not treated "like royalty".

Good luck, can't wait to hear more!!!