Things are good actually thank you for asking, I am enjoying a clean sober celibate healthy lifestyle, I'm trying to save myself for marrige, I have been happy and in a good mental state, today I had to explain myself to a woman who wanted to meet me and to sleep with me, it was kind of weird to turn her down because in a way I want to do it, but I know it wont give me what i'm looking for and won't fulfill me in the long term and will just side track both her and I from what we should be doing with our lives, I tried to be nice about it and explain myself I think it went well and I'm happy hopefully she understood, she seemed cool about it, hopefully she is. So long story short no sexed up whores lately but I think thats for the best.