This is Gypsy's newer site as SeedsDirect is no longer operating. Between the two sites and over the course of 10 years, I know of about 10+ orders that were placed. All of which went flawlessly. To answer your specific questions:
how was the shipping time? The shipping time is longer if you send your payment via mail. When a CC is used, 1-2 weeks shipping time can be expected. They'll also send you multiple emails letting you know your order has been received, packed and shipped.
Was the package stealth at all? Not as stealth as when SeedsDirect was operating, but your order will certainly be discrete enough to get to you.
Did you use your CC to purchase? Yes. I don't suggest using your own. Find a way to pay that is safe and legal for you.
I'm a big fan of Gypsy. He delivers.