Pleasure the girl.

april

Pickle Queen
This is why I play with their clit.

Sound's like you need some licking.
Well clit play is fun when done sparingly, otherwise it seems like ur just trying to get me off and finish urself. Clits should be avoided if u really want to get her going ;) Women want every inch of their body kissed and licked before u even go near the clit, well atleast the women I talk with do. The most boring move is clit rubbing, sorry man but it should only be done when ur ready to blow, "simultaneous orgasm" is ur goal ;)

Nah licking me could leave a bitter taste in ur mouth today ;) not gonna lie lol
 

Flaming Pie

Well-Known Member
Sorry but no toy can replace the feeling of warm firm dick inside u, the way a man holds u as he thrusts deep inside u. But when I thinK about it penetration is not what makes me have an orgasme ;) I suggest U discuss how u feel with ur lady, explain how her taste,smell drives u crazy.If U want to pleasure her try eating her out while using a good not cheap toy on her. Go buy a fancy one that does it all, make sex exciting again. Avoid any negative talk such as " I don't want to fuck u I want to eat u" this will confuse and upset her. Just take charge and make her beg for u dick, tell her she needs to earn it ;) Make her cum a few times and she wont want it lol

Bring back dry humping, heavy petting and hard core make out sessions, sex should always offer pleasure, if u can't tell ur partner what u want why even bother???
My girl still wants the dick. maybe not after a long oral session, but next day when I get home from work she is all over me for it.
 

squirlymama

Member
Just spit it up. At an appropriate time. Toys don't feel nearly as good as a real man, so you're fucked there, but it's better to just talk with her. Things will work themselves out once they get out into the open, and in the long run, you'll be happier for it.
 

monkeybones

Well-Known Member
everyone has their own sexual niche.

it is kind of the opposite for me and my wife with the OP.

i'm fine with satisfying her different needs, and i'm glad she approached me about it like a reasoned adult

she makes it more than worth my while
 
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