Please help with sexing, grow tips appreciated. Is it a boy or girl?

I need some advice as to whether this plant is a male or female. Am I looking at the wrong thing to tell? Perhaps too early? This is my first every grow, outdoor. Any advice would be appreciated.

Too early. Hard to say if you're looking at the wrong thing, but, probably, considering there's no pre-flowers.

You're pics are just right, you're looking in the right place, but it's too early for me to tell.

Instead of taking three pics of the same node, you should've taken different pics of the different nodes. The preflowers won't show at all the nodes at the same time, and it looks like you focused on your lowest node. In my experience, preflowers usually show up on the upward nodes first (2-3 down from the top).

3rd it too early, how many weeks so far?

Ya sorry I was having hell adjusting the camera to snap that close, I'll retry on further up nodes.

From seeds about 4 or 5. Not quiet sure, Im also growing tomatoes. Just treating it like a tomato plant so far.

Heres some more on different nodes

Yep, still too early to tell. When the nodes spiral up (not appear in pairs, but rather one at a time) pre-flowers should form.

Thank you for the advice, and I love that cat picture.