If you are serious (like when did you start thinking it looked like male?), I feel so bad for you buddy, all the way to 10 weeks, man you should have put pics up earlier. At least you know for next time (hopefully no next time tho)
did you not notice the lack of buds at ten weeks? its so hard not to laugh but I feel bad for you at the same time you have to do research to avoid baby mistakes like this