I can assure you with 100% certainty that you will not be busted because of FLIR. You have about as much chance of being busted from them subpoenaing your i.p. address from postings on this site and tracking you down that way. In both those cases, a grow your size is not worth their money or their time. Unless you do something to shove your activity in their faces, they will probably leave you alone. But worrying about them seeing that your house is a bit too hot from the sky... I think you would need to be running a bit more intense operation. I mean, your friend hasn't been busted and he's been doing it for years, that should give you an idea that you can follow suit, IMO. Even if you live in the reddest state in the country, I guarantee that in terms of pot grows you are going to be a very little fish in a very big pond, and the law sharks want a more substantial meal.
thanks for the advice i guess it makes sense, i know people that have been busted but mainly from running off there mouth and actually telling people in the pub etc which has led to them being investigated that way, i don't have worries with anyone finding out any other way, all i'm mainly wondering is if they "happen" to fly over with a flir and see patch of hot air coming from a random spot on the roof and no where else would they try to investigate this as some times "pigs" get a bit bored and want to show off lol and is there any way to actually avoid pumping hot air out the roof