I won't judge you for it.
Why the heck not??!
Listen, it's not 'wrong' as long as it's not animal cruelty, abuse and what have you. If you..maintain the air of mutual 'consent' for lack of a better word, then shit's fine.
Are we going to judge you on it? OF COURSE! it's fucking creepy and weird. Just because it doesn't make you a bad person and just because it doesn't reflect on your character doesn't mean it doesn't reflect on your mental state or stability. It's not wrong, just psychologically off.
And lets face it people, that's something you definitely take into consideration while criticizing somebody.
It's not exactly as controllable a characteristic as say, being obese. Being fat is much more of a controlled factor then sexual desire or 'love'.
Speaking of overly fat people, I understand in some cases it's genetics, but in most cases it's poor decision and indecisiveness rather than not. Does anyone find it ironic that people daily are judged based on characteristics they cannot control, race, financial placement, sex, age yet when you judge someone on something that is fully under their control, like being 150-200lbs over weight you're insensitive and a bad person for it? How dare you judge somebody on something that's fully within there 'Control' whether they want to admit it to themselves or not. If anything being obese up to that point is pretty much a mirror reflection of poor characteristics and habit. I'm rambling on of course, but you get my point.
Point of the story, don't worry about it, just keep it to yourself. Nobody needs to know that shit as much as your religion or anything else on equally personal levels.
Just remember, if people know, they're going to validly make judgement on you as an individual on it. It's fucking natural, and quite very logical as well might I add.
I'd argue you'd almost be just as crazy as the individual in question if you didn't.
