dont worry man. Keep at it. Youll be able to grow a dope eventually n have a dope to smoke. Just try n try again. Growin it is half the fun - even though the other half is smokin it, your still havin a good time growin. If your not, your doin it for the wrong reasons. Growin pot is an option, not an obligation, and the moment that you start to get really pissed off cuz things arent workin for you, and you stop lookin for the answers n ways to fix it, then it takes the fun out of it.
Why dont you take a step back, take a deep breath and relax, and try again. If you already spent all kindsa money on equipment, then half the battle is over, and all youll need to spend from here on out is money on nutes and soil(if your growin soil). Do what Mane said, n go over to attitude n get yourself some feminized seeds. From there, just take care of, and love your plants, and they will show you mad love back.
Dont give up, just relax, n try again bro. Itll work - i garuntee it.
Good luck man,
-K1.
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Also, did you chop down your male?? you could always make tea out of it if your hard up to get high for free man...
