i already told u bro...get a regular seed not the feminized ones...the fem plant is the one that forms buds to smoke with, the male plant is most likely useless to smoke with but is very usefeull to make seeds with the female plant...most likely growers throw there male plants because it will pollinate (sex) the female plant and soon will have both buds and seeds, and this will result in decrease of potency on the female bud that you smoke. the male plants does not have any seeds in the plant but have flowers that excretes a powder form which is like a sperm compared to a human. imagine you have a powder form of sperm and the wind can blow it to a female and make babies.