Dude that sucks.... If I may here?
Was this intentional?
Cause if so, she's got to go, or youll end up going (to jail).
If shes not down with it (the plant), then (a) dont do it, or (b) set her free and do like you like.
sounds like your trying to have your cake and eat it too, watch out man...
jus say'n.....
or it may have been an honest mistake caused by unorganization, in which case disregard the above and clean your act up, mister