He cheated on me and had a kid....with his ex

Louis541 said:

Pretty good. About to pack a bowl and watch Zack and Miri make a porno with my girl. You?

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Louis541 said:

http://www.movshare.net/video/wkfe72dmhd37o

If you decide to watch it...

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Louis541 said:

Get that beatin women shit out of here. If you're so tough why don't you go tell that story at a biker bar or somethin. Find out just how manly you are.

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kubrickzghost said:

Hmmm. First of all, I hope you keep writing to vent these feelings. You have tendencies and that isn't going to help you at all. your angry, but think of who gets the last laugh when you're sitting on death row. Murder or physical harm to anyone is uncalled for in this situation, unless you had to defend yourself. It appears people need to protect themselves from you, so maybe that's exactly what your boyfriend was thinking. Your violent tendencies and language used during this exchange are unhealthy. you must assume that it's one good reason your man strayed from you. Women should not be gangbangers. try wearing a dress and respecting yourself, instead of terrorizing people.

The best advice is to move on and focus on yourself. If you think about how your behavior affected this result, you will come to terms with the why's and move on from the loss. Take this time to work on yourself. Stop hanging around guys that will mislead you just for sex or dependency. I'm afraid to say you do need psychiactric counselling. You're not crazy-- But your lifestyle seems to have affected your behavior and you need to be around people who will improve you as a person. Not just use you as a vessel.

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Louis541 said:

Pretty good. About to pack a bowl and watch Zack and Miri make a porno with my girl. You?

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purplekitty7772008 said:

If you read this, please post.

We were together for 2 years.

And this happened.

I'm very hurt, confused, and angry.

I don't know what to do guys. I just need someone to talk
to I guess.

He was my only friend.
I stopped talking to my girls when we started to get serious.

and now that we're over, I feel very very alone.

I can truly say that I'm so angry inside, if I had the chance
to murder his ex and get away with it, I would surely do it.

I've actually been thinking about how to get away with killing
her, and I know that's not a good thing to be thinking about.

I told him staying with him is not what I want because I'm not
going to be sharing the responsibility of a kid I did not birth.

Sunday, she offered to take him out for fathers day. I told him I didn't
want him going out with her and he said he was gonna go anyway.

He told me he was going to his mom's house after going out to eat.
So I waited at her house (no one was home)

and when I see them pull up, he is driving HER car and hugging her!!!!!
(wtf was he doing driving her car!!!!!!!!!!!)
This really made me go crazy. I went outside, punched him in the head
and told his ex to get out the car so I could beat her ass.

She was like "its my son's birthday..." (it actually was, but I don't
give a shit)


and I was like "Bitch, I don't give a fuck. get out of the fuckin car so I can beat your ass"

She just sat there in the car looking scared and this really pissed me off.


(This bitch has been talking shit to me about "beating my ass" for months.
And has been calling me all types of wenches, whores, and bitches.
So I told her when I get the chance, I'm gonna put her ass in the hospital.)

I tried to get close enough to punch her thru
the window but my boyfriend (now ex) was holding me back. He told her
to leave and then we went in the house. I was so pissed, I attacked him.

He told me to get away from him because I'm "crazy" and he ran in the bathroom. Well, I guess I was so pissed and there was so much
adrenaline in me, I kicked the door down
(great, now I just kicked down his mom's door and he doesn't even live
there anymore)




Then I find out, that his ex fucking snitched on me to his gramma
and mom. (now I really want to kill the bitch)

Then his gramma starts sending me texts being rude. I almost cussed
her old ass out. I know you're supposed to respect your elders, but

I'm not the type of person to let someone sit there and talk shit to me.
(thats why I want to kill his ex).

I absolutely HATE when people test me. And that bitch (ex) has been
testing me for months calling me names THINKING I wouldn't do anything.

Now that she knows I'm serious about beating her to a pulp, she hasn't
said anything to me. And I even saw her at school and she didn't even
LOOK at me.

The sad thing is, I absolutely KNEW if I stayed with him, I would
end up seriously hurting, or possibly killing someone and I'd be the
next person on Oxygen's "Snapped".

I don't know how to deal with all of these emotions and I think I'm going
to hurt someone. I just really need some advice on keeping
my self calm so I don't do something I will regret.


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joe2010 said:

OMG that was ghetto! Like an episode of Jerry Springer and shit. Thank god it wasn't typed in Ebonics.

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Stoney McFried said:

Oh..and the sex scene in there between Zack and Miri...it was pretty hot, even though you didn't see anything.

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IceWaterBong87 said:

didnt really read the post except for a few sentences but all break ups are pretty the same....
-make sure u watch wat u eat
-find something to do that makes u sweat n think about the work instead of reminiscing/excercise
-basically time is all u need
-dont use alchohol/drugs (cept blunts) to fill voids except if ur already doing it when u were together...sory for the reminder
-just remember a lot of ppl felt this way n it aint just u ......appreciate all the things u realize now

lol i aint no dr. phil but im not ashamed to say i felt the same way even stop hangin with friends but u can still call them up im sure they wanna chill

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purplekitty7772008 said:

thank you.

actually, i haven't been eating.

just juice, water, and a few grapes when I'm hungry.

now i have the shits. lol. I seriously need to eat.

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joe2010 said:

Thats attractive!

purplekitty7772008

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skiskate said:

it was until.... well if youve seen the movie I think you know what im talking about. haha

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purplekitty7772008 said:

If you read this, please post.

We were together for 2 years.

And this happened.

I'm very hurt, confused, and angry.

I don't know what to do guys. I just need someone to talk
to I guess.

He was my only friend.
I stopped talking to my girls when we started to get serious.

and now that we're over, I feel very very alone.

I can truly say that I'm so angry inside, if I had the chance
to murder his ex and get away with it, I would surely do it.

I've actually been thinking about how to get away with killing
her, and I know that's not a good thing to be thinking about.

I told him staying with him is not what I want because I'm not
going to be sharing the responsibility of a kid I did not birth.

Sunday, she offered to take him out for fathers day. I told him I didn't
want him going out with her and he said he was gonna go anyway.

He told me he was going to his mom's house after going out to eat.
So I waited at her house (no one was home)

and when I see them pull up, he is driving HER car and hugging her!!!!!
(wtf was he doing driving her car!!!!!!!!!!!)
This really made me go crazy. I went outside, punched him in the head
and told his ex to get out the car so I could beat her ass.

She was like "its my son's birthday..." (it actually was, but I don't
give a shit)


and I was like "Bitch, I don't give a fuck. get out of the fuckin car so I can beat your ass"

She just sat there in the car looking scared and this really pissed me off.


(This bitch has been talking shit to me about "beating my ass" for months.
And has been calling me all types of wenches, whores, and bitches.
So I told her when I get the chance, I'm gonna put her ass in the hospital.)

I tried to get close enough to punch her thru
the window but my boyfriend (now ex) was holding me back. He told her
to leave and then we went in the house. I was so pissed, I attacked him.

He told me to get away from him because I'm "crazy" and he ran in the bathroom. Well, I guess I was so pissed and there was so much
adrenaline in me, I kicked the door down
(great, now I just kicked down his mom's door and he doesn't even live
there anymore)




Then I find out, that his ex fucking snitched on me to his gramma
and mom. (now I really want to kill the bitch)

Then his gramma starts sending me texts being rude. I almost cussed
her old ass out. I know you're supposed to respect your elders, but

I'm not the type of person to let someone sit there and talk shit to me.
(thats why I want to kill his ex).

I absolutely HATE when people test me. And that bitch (ex) has been
testing me for months calling me names THINKING I wouldn't do anything.

Now that she knows I'm serious about beating her to a pulp, she hasn't
said anything to me. And I even saw her at school and she didn't even
LOOK at me.

The sad thing is, I absolutely KNEW if I stayed with him, I would
end up seriously hurting, or possibly killing someone and I'd be the
next person on Oxygen's "Snapped".

I don't know how to deal with all of these emotions and I think I'm going
to hurt someone. I just really need some advice on keeping
my self calm so I don't do something I will regret.


Suggestions.....

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