Dont let your gf touch your plants!! PICS!
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Christianw1985
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I agree with you, i even told her this a couple days ago. I was watering them and seeing the state that they are in and WERE in, makes me sad. All of my time was up into them and it was just taken away all at once. It wasn't just a simple "Wheres my phone?" "Oh i hid it" And then she picks up my plants... It was numerous of things that escalated to this, but in the end i didn't break anything of hers that she can look back on now and say fucker... But i can, my plants...
Celestial
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Christian i do feel some sympathy for you - your plants were looking great before all this happened and showed the effort you'd put into growing them. However...
Maybe you should give some more thought to your security if you're growing. Having a huge screaming row late at night could attract unwanted attention from your neighbours, and the sound of yelling and things being thrown around/broken might even get them calling the cops.
The fact that your gf bothered to come on here just so she could tell her side of the story probably means she'll vent about it to all her friends about it and soon loads of people will know you're growing. By the sounds of things your relationship has gone sour and and if you can't make things right with her or things do get worse between you, maybe she will turn you in. I would say the best thing to do would be to tell her they died and then move them somewhere she won't find them but its kind of pointless if she's reading this thread...
Anyway I hope that you'll put in as much effort trying to salvage your relationship as you do your plants or you could end up with much bigger problems on your hands than some damaged plants.
Good luck sorting it all out, hope your plants make it.
If your plants really are your pride and joy and they were in such danger, why didn't you just tell her where the phone was at that point? Clearly you didn't want to back down or maybe you thought she wouldn't do it. Either way, it was a bad call on your part, and while I don't think her actions were justifiable, maybe you need to take some responsibility for what happened. It's not like she just went after them while you were weren't there.
Maybe you should give some more thought to your security if you're growing. Having a huge screaming row late at night could attract unwanted attention from your neighbours, and the sound of yelling and things being thrown around/broken might even get them calling the cops.
The fact that your gf bothered to come on here just so she could tell her side of the story probably means she'll vent about it to all her friends about it and soon loads of people will know you're growing. By the sounds of things your relationship has gone sour and and if you can't make things right with her or things do get worse between you, maybe she will turn you in. I would say the best thing to do would be to tell her they died and then move them somewhere she won't find them but its kind of pointless if she's reading this thread...
Anyway I hope that you'll put in as much effort trying to salvage your relationship as you do your plants or you could end up with much bigger problems on your hands than some damaged plants.
Good luck sorting it all out, hope your plants make it.
Seamaiden
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She "broke" something that grows and can repair itself?
Leave it to a "man" (and I'm using that term very loosely here) to think it's ok to justify his behavior because she FINALLY felt pushed over the edge and delivered to him consequences for his actions. Like I said before, now he knows she won't just take the bullshit -- he pulls something on her with her possessions, she'll pull something back. Don't fuck with her, simple as that.Yeah! She should have just let him rolled her over! Fuck man, she should have grabbed the Astraglide and spread her asscheeks, huh? He is SO mature, fucking around with HER phone, she has no business getting mad about it. And he has every right to do whatever he wants because he grows pot and that makes him so cool!
Christianw1985
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My plants are my pride and joy, just as i would think the same of anyone that grew as well.
Think of not giving something back, bc you are just tired of her stomping all over you, and this time you wont be the one to back down. So with that mind set, if in the past ive always backed down, and im not this time... Things will get out of hand bc someone has to stop, and you see how far it went.... At the time i didnt know if she would do it or not.... it wasnt about that really, it was just the thought that she would even think about doing that was worse... See the thing is we germinated them together, so its not like they arent "hers"... But as i take care of them for the most part, i see that i have a different bond with them than she does.
Well im happy that the cops didnt come and im still around. I know that she has talked to a few of her friends, and im not really worried about the word traveling.
Seamaiden
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Jeez, how about the two of you cut your losses and find someone else to fuck around with, eh? Clearly neither of you is really good for the other, and neither of you brings out the best in the other. That's the mark of a real mate, in my opinion. My husband always brings out the very best in me.
Christianw1985
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No babe.... In other words you found the right person for you... All of us are still looking
stuman2301
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i would of smacked that bitch....kicked her out my house and then smashed her cell phone in a million lttle itty bity tiny peices
Very well said, that is good advice, and yes both should take resposibility.
WOW! Don't even know what to say about this. LOL. Sounds like over at your house, you are going to break shit, get the cops called, whatever it takes until the man backs down. Come on.....I would be a nervous wreck every day living with a woman with this attitude. No matter what the fight is about, or what is happening, IT IS NOT OK TO BREAK SHIT! NO MATTER WHAT! There is no point in it. She doesn't have to take his shit, there is a ton of other things she can do besides break things. Why is that the only thing she could have done? You are looking at it all wrong, you are letting your emotions get involved. Look at it logicaly (try male logic) and you will see that was uncalled for. Usually the best thing to do in a situationn like that is to take a break from each other for about 20-30 mins and come back and things will be calmer. I understand both are yelling and screaming, but he didn't hit her, or break anything of hers. I can't believe that you think it is alright of her to just start breaking shit. LOL.....I dont even know what to say anymore.She "broke" something that grows and can repair itself?
Yeah! She should have just let him rolled her over! Fuck man, she should have grabbed the Astraglide and spread her asscheeks, huh? He is SO mature, fucking around with HER phone, she has no business getting mad about it. And he has every right to do whatever he wants because he grows pot and that makes him so cool!
PS, I never justified his behavior, but his behavior does not justify HERS!!! Don't you get it?
panhead
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I think you missed her point,the whole point is that when one person (man or woman) starts to act like an idiot how can the other person be expected to act in a rational manner,now lets look at this picture,the guy starts playing baby games,little childish shit with fuull intention of pissing her off as much as he can as fast as he can so he hides her stupid phone( WTF is it with youth & these god dammed phones thats so important),now he's got the response he was looking for because she's livid.WOW! Don't even know what to say about this. LOL. Sounds like over at your house, you are going to break shit, get the cops called, whatever it takes until the man backs down. Come on.....I would be a nervous wreck every day living with a woman with this attitude. No matter what the fight is about, or what is happening, IT IS NOT OK TO BREAK SHIT! NO MATTER WHAT! There is no point in it. She doesn't have to take his shit, there is a ton of other things she can do besides break things. Why is that the only thing she could have done? You are looking at it all wrong, you are letting your emotions get involved. Look at it logicaly (try male logic) and you will see that was uncalled for. Usually the best thing to do in a situationn like that is to take a break from each other for about 20-30 mins and come back and things will be calmer. I understand both are yelling and screaming, but he didn't hit her, or break anything of hers. I can't believe that you think it is alright of her to just start breaking shit. LOL.....I dont even know what to say anymore.
It's obvious that her phone is of great importance to her as with most youth,thats why he took it,to hurt her,so not to be outdone she strikes back by pusshing his buttons,automaticlly she goes after something of great importance to him,ah ha i know what i can do to get him back,the weed plants,so now she's acting like an idiot dancing around with baby weed plants over her head & him being the tough guy who wont give in still refuses to give back whats important to her so she smashes his plants.
Both these people act like morons not just her,i'd be willing to bet that relationship is pretty much doomed because both of them are extremely immature & seld centered.
Her whole point was that instead of everybody feeling sorry for that guy is that their both stupid & equally in the wrong,atleast i think that was her point.
No, I don't think you get my point. THEY BOTH ACTED STUPID. I never argued that at all. I don't care what happened in the fight, no need to take it out on innocent items that have done nothing to no one. I am only saying he did not break anything. Let me just say this, I am not on his side or her side, I am on the side of the poor plants that did nothing to no one. Same with a TV, I would be pissed at anyone who was dumb enough to break a TV in a fight. What a fucking waste. I don't like things being wasted no matter what. I dont even like to watch movies where they are destroying perfectly good things for no reason. Maybe part of my OCD, but I hate when people break things out of anger, or just for fun. Fights usually end, and then you still have the broken things to replace. It is just uncalled for.
Charfizcool
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I woulda been pissed!!! I woulda either done one of two things:1) paid one some girl to beat her ass or 2) deflated her tires by pushing in the pin 
<---more likely to do this since it's funny but doesn't really hurt anyone, just takes up time.
<---more likely to do this since it's funny but doesn't really hurt anyone, just takes up time.
Christianw1985
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How could you say something like that about two people that you dont even know. How could one say that they are self centered if you dont know what the fight was about.
We both know that was we did was stupid and immature, but at the same time she went one step farther and broke something.
Timmy the Toker
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Hehahahahahha This is a great post. Rule Number 1#. "Dont Let Anybody Know About your Operation" Hahaha. Tho's things are toast.
Christianw1985
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HAHA thats why its the number one rule, and along with that title its the hardest to keep!!!
Thats what I was thinking, I don't know what the fight was about, either do they, but they act like they know what the hell happened and she had every right to break your plants. I think they have had issues maybe in the past, and are reacting because of those things. They don't know what the fight was about, and they are getting very upset about it. My only point is, nothing ever needs to get broke during a fight. PERIOD! Doesn't matter what it is about. People need to control their tempers.